Sorry For The Rant - Blog Posts

Finally, somebody is saying what I'm thinking. Cause' I've been seeing that shit a lot recently. I was looking for aotxreader, but ended up seeing some gojoxreader. Seriously, some of you need to get some help. I get it. You REALLY love your husbados, but chill out on the smutty fanfics and miss-tagging shit. Write some cute short romance stories with a slight smut on the side and tag them correctly. 😭 I love smut, but there's a time and a place for it. I don't want it slapping me in the face when I'm trying to find some romance headcannons about cuddles and dates about a particular character from a specific series. Also, if it's mature or sexual and you don't want kids reading it, put it as Mature or Sexual themes! Don't just put MDI while expecting little Timmy or Tammy to not read it. The little buggers are going to read it anyways. Then again, I should be blaming the parents for giving their kids tablets without monitoring them. (Sorry for the rant. I wanted to speak my mind since it's frustrating as hell.)

Tagging

Y'all need start tagging y'all fanfics correctly. I don't want to read y'all sucking dick. Y'all be doing that on purpose.

You giving head while they used to chop off yours.

It's not feminist if you're attacking women for being uncomfortable with something. Fiction or not.

unpopular opinion

I WANT THIS FUCKER DEAD

HE'S SO FUCKING ANNOYING I JUST WANNA STRANGLE HIM HE ADDS NOTHING TO ANYTHING I FIND GENUINE ENJOYMENT WATCHING THIS FUCKER BURN AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH I HATE HIM SO MUCH LOOK AT HIS STUPID FACE

HE'S SO RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH HE'S SO STUPID I JUST WANNA PUNT HIM TO THE SUN SO BADLY SEDLO;GHFSALIJKGAKDRGHZJKDUFHGLJKDZXFGLKJSDZG

Thank you for your time :)

still trying to figure out Tumblr

I mean I saw so many inspiring prompts in here but still acclimating to reblogs

It's not a decision

I always thought Harry's childhood house had like dark brown painted stairs with dark oak floors and viridian wallpaper until I see the movies and realized the stairs are white

Like idk what gave me the impression but it just seemed like a miserable dark and dingy house now that I think about it

I love the trope "don't know how to behave (or function) like a normal human because of some individuals or organization"

Where's the angst

Wheres the feelings

Where's the recovery

There are some in my favorite fandoms but those are so few and far inbetween I crave hhhhhhh

The parallels between Shigaraki and Deku make me SICK to my stomach. Tomura is the personification of that quote,

“You robbed me of my life. I could have been human—I could have been alive.”

They so easily could have had their roles switched. Two vulnerable children who wanted to change the world for the better, but were denied because of society placing expectations and limits upon them. Both of them deemed worthless by someone they look up to (Bakugou and Shigaraki’s family), when all they needed was someone to give them that external validation they craved.

You could have been alive, Tomura. But you fought to the end, in the hopes that you could be a hero for the outcasts who needed it. A stopped heart once beat just as furiously as a live one. Even when you refused to be saved Tenko, your body simply moved on its own, didn’t it?

...And They Were Narrative Foils

Shigaraki Tomura and Izuku Midoriya are characters who have far more in common than they have differences. They even have the exact same origin point as a kid who wanted to become a hero more than anything else, but was told by everyone around them they couldn’t be on. The difference between them represents the inherent unfairness of the world, Midoriya was saved and Shigarki wasn’t. However, rather than working together to try to fix the flaws in the unfair world that hurt both of them Shigaraki and Midoriya are forced to fight each other due to the mistakes of their predecessors forcing them into conflict. This is a meta on their extremely unique relationship and why they need to come to an understanding in order to fight the real enemy. 

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I'm mad

My friend, who sits across from me in my art class, is doing some painting and she keeps moving her arm to adjust her sleeve. Well, she happens to have just dipped the brush into water, adjusts her sleeve directly over what I'm working on, and gets drops of blue tinged water all over my paper. Ruined my drawing before I could finish inking it. Now there are blue spots all over it. I thank her, sarcastically, for ruining it and she says, in this cheerful voice, you're welcome. And I liked how it was turning out, too.

Something that needs to be talked about more is how you'll randomly get over a depressive episode because of the most minor things?? I know as soon as one minor inconvenience happens it'll come back but I'm at peace with that. Still baffled at how easy it is to be okay, even for a few days.

If you want to learn more about saving animal species just look at saw otters!! (And just all the conservation at the Monterey Bay Aquarium) These little guys have become so used to humans that we now have the otter 841! She is a female otter that has been terrorizing surfers all around the Monterey Bay. Sea creatures and all of nature really is fascinating!

One thing that pisses me off is people seeing fish in aquariums (the establishments, not home aquariums) and being like “It’s so sad because the ocean is so big and the tank is so small and they’ll never know freedom blah blah blah-“ I’m not talking about sharks and marine mammals here but the majority of fish are not at all bothered by being in an aquarium instead of the open ocean. Like, I personally would love to be a little clown fish in one of those big reef tanks. Fed regularly. Whole team of people monitoring my health and well-being. No predators. Medicated if I show signs of illness. Aquarium fish have cushy gigs in comparison to their wild companions.

Gifted kid still in school here!

I am struggling in math, but everyone thinks I’m great at it since I’m a grade ahead no one listens to me when I talk about my anxiety about getting bad grades (a low A or a B, I have cried over getting those multiple times), saying that I can’t have anxiety/be stressed because I’m so young.

And because I excel in science, I’m currently in an honors course and two college courses! How fun. (/Sarcasm)

Everyone calls me smart just because I get decent grades. I don’t know anything about the solar system, engineering or coding.. but my special interest is architecture, urban design, City , art, reading and storytelling yet I never get to show anyone that.

They call me smart because I know most of the SAT words already and their definitions, but I only know that because I pick up a book every once in a while and binge read a whole series in a week.

According to everyone, I know, I’m a know it all, yet I can’t control the tone of my voice, I can’t understand Love or emotions. I just don’t feel human sometimes. Yet they call me smart.

I never learned how to study, I never learned how to take notes properly until this year and I still can’t turning my homework on time because it’s difficult sometimes and it’s discouraged me because everything supposed to be easy. That’s what I was told.

It’s not easy. Nothing is anymore, and it’s throwing me for such a loop that I can’t understand.

Maybe I’m in the middle of a gifted kid burn out, but I’ve been burnt out since middle school.

people misunderstand what ‘gifted kid’ actually means but it’s ok it’s fine it’s cool it’s good

(So I only just now saw that you said tag it, lmk if you want me to take this down or make it it's own thing- idk if you're doing research or something lol)

Danny fenton- no seriously. The day I processed that Danny had full on been electrocuted and died? That he couldn't go to anyone about it? That being in such a traumatizing event in his OWN HOME- he's a kid, he's supposed to be safe in his own home, his parents were supposed to keep him safe- that being so horrifically changed into something wrong meant his parents would hunt him down if they ever knew? He didn't change, not really, but his body stopped being his. His name stopped meaning him. His parents would go around publicly trying to kill(if he's lucky) him, were they ever safe? Would they even believe him? What if they're right, what if ghosts arent people- what if Danny died for good and whatever this ghost boy is just THINKS he's Danny, like his parents are always saying "ghosts don't feel, they're just pretending. They don't have emotions or identities, they just think they do! It's an evolutionary thing dann-o! Gotta trick the humans into being sympathetic!!"

Anyway, yeah I thought too hard for too long about identity and what is and isn't real and honesty versus survival and family versus safety and then I blocked out the next few years until my fifteenth birthday and never actually finished Danny phantom lmao

fuck it, i'm curious. reblog and tag with the first fictional death to ever rewrite your brain chemistry and/or make you cry like a baby. mine was ares from the underland chronicles (who, for context, was a giant bat.) to this day i will weep if i think too hard about it. okay, go.

I love being in psych bc I learn shit like

Men’s brains get less sexually aroused when they smell women’s tears compared to saline solution (based on BOLD signals from fMRI)

Which means rapist just do it for the game and the “oh what she was wearing” “he can’t control himself” “men have urges” thing is wrong scientifically as well as morally, logically, ethically and all the other ly’s

So if you say this I’ll take a guess and say if I were to fMRI ur brain there would be no activity.

Ranting

I'm so tired of comparing myself to others. I know it's stupid, but I really can't help it. All day goes like this: I should be tall like that guy. Oh, I should be as positive as that girl, I should be funny like that person.

I've changed a lot about myself and now I'm not sure if the guy I look like, is really me. I wish I could dress the way I want, but the social norms don't seem to let me (not without getting noticed and bullied by it). I want to wear suspenders! Why? I like vintage things! But even though it's freaking Halloween, I still got made fun of because I wore suspenders.

I need to wear my glasses daily. I know that. But do I wear them? No. Because I keep getting made fun of. I'm so sick and tired of all this. I wish it would end, but I know it won't really. I've even changed the way I've talked.

I wish people wouldn't make fun of people for something they can't control. IT'S SO FUCKING STUPID. I can't help it that I'm short! People know that. And yet: I keep getting made fun of, compared to, etc.

"I'm taller than you." They say. Buddy. You think I don't know that? "No offense, but you're really short." Oh no, really? "Yay! I'm taller than you!" I'm glad you feel better while you make me feel like shit. Yay!

I'm so tired of this. I'm tired of the way I look. I'm just really tired. I wish I was tall, but I'm not. I wish I was confident, but I'm not. I wish I was respected, but that's NOT gonna happen anytime soon.

I don't know. I'm just tired. And really frustrated.

hey guys!! I'm back. i have a message for everyone. RESPECT PEOPLE'S BOUNDARIES!!!!! I saw a fanfic on AO3 where the author said that they don't care if they cross boundaries and that it's "not their problem if people don't like certain things". THIS IS NOT OK!!!! IT'S NOT YOUR CHARACTER AND YOU DON'T GET A SAY IN WHAT YOU'RE ALLOWED TO DO WITH THEM OR NOT!!!! IF A CONTENT CREATOR SAYS THAT SHIPPING AND NSFW ARE NOT OK, RESPECT THAT!!!! DON'T DO IT ANYWAYS JUST BECAUSE "they will probably never see it". THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT DOESN'T EXIST!!!! EVEN IF THE CREATOR NEVER SEES IT, THAT DOESN'T INVALIDATE THEIR FEELINGS OR BOUNDARIES!!!! DON'T MISGENDER PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU'RE "uncomfortable with the it/it's pronouns" OR "neopronouns are weird and difficult to use in writing so I won't use them"!!! IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY AND YOU DON'T GET TO TELL PEOPLE WHAT PRONOUNS THEY CAN AND CAN'T USE!!!! JUST BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING AND RESPECT PEOPLE!!!

My first Furby and new addition to the family

EDEN

Eden was made by Louie inc. on Mercari.

I feel like shit. My minds gone to shit. I’m trying to write what I want to but I can’t process shit. This THING. EXCISTENCE. Is a piece of shit.

tw; discussions of grooming/pedophilia

i got a few contenders tbh;

the books that take the cake for me would have to be pinestar's choice and onestar's book whatever its called.

i know a lot of people like pinestar so this might be a hot take but there's literally a line about how he wants to make an apprentice a warrior because he wants to be mates with her [leopardfoot]. i couldn't find the actual line but i found this on the wiki:

"Smallear and Pinestar sit together, with the warrior commenting on how he's been with Leopardfoot a lot recently." - leopardfoot being something like 10 years younger them him.

onestars confession i dislike for a similar reason (passage from the book):

'"We make a good team, don't we?" Whitetail purred, giving Onewhisker a long look from shining eyes. Onewhisker blinked, slightly shocked. Does she . . . like me? He had never thought of Whitetail as anything but his apprentice and then a good clanmate, but now he realized that she was a full warrior, very capable . . . and very pretty. It had been a long time since she was an apprentice.'

I guess you could apply the same logic to spottedleaf's heart, but the difference is that it was the author's intension for thistleclaw to be a predator / groomer, even though the execution for that ended up undercooked. the previous two are completely unintentional and considered normal in the warriors universe. idk dude the double standard is kinda crazy though.

all that being said, if i had to completely remove one of these from the series it would have to be onestar's confession, because at least pinestar's choice offers the reader an interesting concept of a warrior actually wanting to become a kittypet. i dont think theres another book that does that sooooo good job i guess?

if you had to completely wipe ONE warriors book out of existence which book would it be

I probably won’t talk a lot about politics here but I hate how people, who aren’t affected by the bill or whatever being passed, complain about the bill or whatever. I live in a relatively small town in a state that is pretty liberal and open minded. My mom calls the town that we live in the ‘Trump Country’ of the state. Basically the town is relatively poor (we are being forced to cut fundings to the schools, many beloved teachers are being fired, our library is only open like two days a month if we are lucky) and most of the residents are elderly people. I’m lucky and I actually have a really good house but many of the people are living in crappy little houses that suck. Our town is also notorious for losing power at the slightest wind, or having construction going on during the morning while all the kids and teenagers are trying to get to school. The reason my mom calls our town the ‘Trump Country’ of where we live is because all of the old people that live here are very much conservative Christians. To be fair it’s not awful, our schools are really supportive and we have a lot of support, but the elderly people are definitely not supportive. There are Trump signs all over our town and a transphobic guy almost became our school’s superintendent. One thing about our town is that there hasn’t been an override passed on anything in a really long time. Another thing to know about our town is that our schools are really really shitty and outdated. Almost all schools are original schoolhouses from when the town was first founded. In my 2019-2020 school year, before lockdown, our school was being renovated and they found asbestos in the ceilings so we were forced to be on the first floor for basically the whole year (We were in our actual classrooms for maybe 1-2 months before lockdown started) . The funding that the schools got from the pandemic was really really helpful because they were finally able to renovate the schools, get better desks and chairs, and they were able to give us free lunch. Now that there is no more pandemic money the schools are back to being poor so they have to lay off a bunch of teachers and take away a bunch of activities. There is no more language or band in the middle school and the drama department is just barely staying afloat and it might get cut next year. The town decided to vote on an Override for the schools so that children could continue to enjoy doing things like band and language without having to fire practically all of their staff. Now, as mentioned before, most of my town is older people who don’t have kids in school. The override would increase taxes a little bit which makes sense. The older people, instead of looking at all of the children who are now being forced to leave the school system in our town and instead pay a lot of money for school choice, decided that they couldn’t handle a raise in their taxes, no matter how small. It should be noted that all of these old fuckers live in actual houses and they voted no, while the people living in the shitty little houses without air conditioning voted yes on this bill because they all have children. Now children are being forced to leave their friends and change schools if they want to do band before ninth grade.

AIGHT WHO TF PITCHED THE IDEA OF MOON RISING (wings of fire) BUT ITS CATS???

YOU.

if ya running out of ideas for a book, then just end it! yk how many new warriors readers would love to catch up atleast ONCE before a new book comes out??? PROB A MILLION! yk what theres also a million of?? THINGS U COULD DO INSTEAD OF WRITING A NEW BOOK! work on the graphic novels-maybe a coloring book would be fun, WORK ON BETTER MERCH- i mean your figures are ooookay but the PLUSHIES??? cheap asf- mapleshade looks like an evil lint ball. OOH HOW ABOUT A VIDEO GAME THAT FANS HAVE BEEN WANTING FOR YEARS?? OR A SHOW?!- LIKE THE ONE U SHUT DOWN, MADE BY BELOVED AND DEVOTED FANS WHO ARENT BAD LIKE WCUE...WHICH YOU TEAMED UP WITH AND ACTIVLEY PROMOTE.

sorry for rant im just anrg

honestly, if im going to say anything i should say it now

id never want to be an elk if i had the choice, i wouldnt take it

im glad to have these human abilities, smarts, and privileges. even though i want horns or a muzzle at times that would also mean i would have a horrible life. prey have alot of downsides with their life, prob not even making it to adulthood. its filled with anxiety, your friends and family just dying around you and running since theres only a small chance of successfully fighting back. predators have evolved right next to us so they know our plans, our moves, and our abilities while humans have quite a life of bliss. we even trap animals that can easily kill us like tigers and bears then look at them within zoos.

i cant really think of any other animal id want to be then the human, perhaps a domestic dog or parrot but thats honestly it

sorry for the rant uhhh doodle was drawn on phone this time cuz i was at schol :P

i think a harry potter dni person followed me what do i do i love hp-

I dont support the trans = bad stuff cuz my gender is a mess rn and like bro lemmie just enjoy my silly lil game- also the community itself is very enjoyable and comforting as ive met plenty of gay ppl in there who just dont care about the transphobia stuff cuz harry potter is what they like. tbh for me its what the community is about not the creator, a large example is warrior cats and prob other communities too

uhhh idk what else to say after that small rant whats yalls fave quest in hogwarts legacy? mines where u save buckbeak or tame the lord of the shore idk which one i just love the creatures in that game sm

I think we should listen to will wood on this one guys.

Overload...

One of the best things about college to me is just showing up early to get a good seat away from people and pick where I sit. I love being able to sit away from the flickering bright white lights that loom over the students, yet being able to sit away from windows and distractions that might interfere with my studies. With all these great things soon comes misery though...the seat I pick always ends up having someone trying to sit near me so I have to set my backpack on the chair next to me and sit in the corner if possible. I fear people might think I'm rude, but the noises of others clicking away on computers, talking to their neighbors, smells, and any small noises or motions they make just tend to bother my sensory issues. I have severe sensory issues due to my autism and sensory processing disorder so I go into a meltdown almost every time I show up to class. I love school and learning as it's my special interest and always has been. The ability for me to expand my knowledge in any way possible makes me happy and want to flap my hands around. I just wish people were more considerate and I didn't have to wear headphones just to exist in normal environments. School is great, yet extremely hard and I always miss classes sometimes. I tried online school, but it's hard for me to focus and stay attentive in class. I'd rather sleep through it instead which is a huge issue. I don't know, I just feel as if I need to let out some of my issues and get them off my chest in order to sit through this next class. Sorry if I come off as rude, I don't mean to. I just am struggling so much lately to just exist. I want to curl up in a ball and hide away from society until people acknowledge that those with disabilities can and will be in professional settings too so we need to make things to accommodate them.

Am i gaslighting myself?

Early this year i was told by a doctor that i have developed a shellfish allergy, after having a few bad reactions randomly, and have since stopped eating all forms of shellfish. I used to be able to eat shellfish perfectly fine and the development of the allergy was really out of nowhere.

I wouldn’t eat any shellfish but i would feel really bad because my family now has to stop making shellfish dishes which we used to have a lot and is even more inconvenient given my other food allergies.

I would tell myself that it’s probably nothing and that i was just being over dramatic and it was probably just paranoia.

But then a couple days ago i had a really bad reaction from a shellfish cross contamination, which should prove that it’s completely real and that I’m not overreacting right? But it’s still... not that easy.

I still feel bad about having these dietary restrictions that affect the people around me and wish i could just suck it up.

Howdy, I’m Sonny, your local enby demiboy and I’m here to talk about ✨names✨

Okay so this is mostly a personal rant (feel free to skip)

Ok so

The summer before 8th grade I had determined I didn’t like being called my legal name or the (god damned) nickname that came with it. So I started thinking about names that could pass as nicknames for my legal name.

I was listening to musicals like I often do and in the heights came on, and I guess you can see where this is going.

I chose my name in honor and reference to Sonny and kept that spelling as a way to convince that it was derived from legal name.

And so I started introducing myself as Sonny. It made me happy, when people call me Sonny I would be more excited to answer, and my mom started introducing me to her friends as Sonny.

Mind you, I changed my name before I determined it was okay for me to question my gender.

When I accepted that I wasn’t cisgender I started to think of ways I could either come out to my mother or gain comfort without.

I have determined that I shouldn’t come out, not with how my mom see’s people who fall out of the binary and even those who just don’t associate with their AGAB.

But I started to drop hints that I dislike how my figure falls. Y’know specifically the stupid flash sacks hanging from my torso.

This is about the time that things started to change.

My mom stopped introducing me as Sonny.

It was slow at first

“Oh this is Sonny”

“Oh this is my DAUGHTER, *legal name* but SHE goes by Sonny”

“This is *legal name*”

“This is *god damn evil nickname*”

I don’t know if she suspects something, but she’s the type to confront you if she is suspicious.

That’s how I got dragged out of the closet as asexual.

But I just wanted to illustrate how bad it can make you feel when someone ignores your name.

When she stopped using my preferred name, it felt like she decided I didn’t have to be respected.

I don’t need to be acknowledged correctly.

I don’t have to feel comfort or joy when someone addresses me.

I don’t think that’s just me.

My heart hurts so to distract myself Imma tell you why vision tests are stupid.

Ok so I recently got my learners permit so I had to take a vision test but that one wasn’t bad. But it made me think about how much bullshit vision tests are.

When you take a vision test and they have you do your eyes separately but you have to read the same line?

Idk about other people but I already memorized what the line says because the doctor always makes me read with my dominant eye first, so I know what the line says even if I can’t see it clearly?!?

And I tried to convey this to my doctor and she was like well then you can read it, which no?!?

So now I have a lighter prescription than I used to and I can’t see well for shit.

I hate my love language

Hi I’m your local friendly AroAce.

And my love language is gifts. As I’m writing this I’m currently sitting on the floor making stuff for my friends for Easter.

I love to make gifts for people. Or even buying stuff for them. I will sew them a stuffie, draw them a picture, pain and item for them, make a piece of jewelry or otherwise.

But the issue is,

I like presents too.

That doesn’t sound like a problem except that the people in my life don’t really do gifts.

My parents will typically do something that I was already in need of as my present and my friends will typically just mass produce some sort of pastry for the group to share.

And I know it’s greedy and selfish to want something more, something with more meaning.

But I can’t help it. I don’t talk to them about it because I know I would sound greedy and selfish. I just need to rant about it.

I’m sorry.

OK so if no one reads this I won’t care at all, this is strictly my opinion and it’s pretty dumb anyways.

All right I’m going to start this off by saying that Hank is NOT a comfort dispenser for Connor. But apparently that’s what most people make him out to be. Connor, granted, being a deviant, does have emotions, but he’s likely still trying to work them out and understand them so right after the revolution he’s probably still more on the deadpan android side of emotion. Not saying he doesn’t show emotion at all, Connor has stated many times that he’s been scared and he’s shown anger and affection many times. Though even in these cases he seems to gain control again fairly quickly. Connor is still trying to work himself out, still trying to find a deeper understanding of himself and emotion itself. And yes, I do think it’s cute when Connor is having a hard time going through and/ or understanding an emotion like sadness, anxiety, or guilt and Hank helps him out. But this ALWAYS happens. Hank is rarely ever shown with emotions such as the ones just stated. Most of the time he’s only ever in fan fictions or fan art because he’s meant to comfort Connor. Hank has depression. Hank is suicidal. Hank has a severe drinking problem because of it. His SON died, for Pete’s sake. But in most ship or father/son relationship fics, it’s mainly about Hank helping Connor out. I know Connor has many of his own problems as well, and I’m not saying that this should be completely turned around to where Connor is a comfort dispenser for Hank. Absolutely not. I’m just saying that it bothers me that not many people seem to address that Hank has mental health issues and center everything around Connor. I know that Connor is generally a more well-known and loved character, and many people seem to see Hank as an “Unattractive character” both in design and personality(I’m not trying to call anyone out, this is just from what I personally have seen), but as I said it’s kind of annoying that Hank is generally used as a support character for Connor when he has many of his own problems. Hank and Connor have a very deep relationship, whether it be best friends, lovers, or a father-son relationship and all relationships go both ways. Hank and Connor are supposed to help each other, not just Hank helping Connor. Please tell me if I’ve said something wrong. If you want to correct me on something, please do it in at least a polite manner. Thank you. 

Any other aroace people in a weird spot where like you want to be in a relationship, but don’t understand what you want from it? Like I want that emotional connection and feeling that close to somebody, but it’s hard for me to believe that that will happen. Because I never really meet anybody I just understand, and I l think understands me in that exact way that’s sort of romance but slightly different, so I just end up feeling lonely and stuck

Anyway sorry for the rant, just curious!

Listen, listen, I'm just gonna say it. If Will and Robin get to be the chaotic queer duo of WLW/MLM solidarity, then I want at least one conversation between Steve and Mike. One! That does not include a, "so you really like my sister huh" type joke convo- NO I want bonding. Even if it's a throw away heart to heart that lasts 3 seconds. Even if it's not about byler or Will and Robin being friends, give me a moment. Maybe something that's just a bit of fluff/angst like, "Y'know Dustin misses hanging out with you guys outside of DnD... Like a lot" and some more contemplation from Mike about how his "obsession" (if I can call it that) with El, or maybe just having a girlfriend in general, has been affecting the other people in his life and his relationships with them.

Or maybe I just think Steve Harrington's a badass bisexual mom who whoops ass and takes care of his kids, and I want to see that with more than just Dustin (and Max kinda) for just a few scenes.

I'd also be happy with a similar heart to heart scene with Mike and Nancy mostly because I wish we got to see more of them together.