Actually Plural - Blog Posts

i haven't been in front in days fuck you MEAN shadow milk cookie has been disguising himself as me to ALMOST EVERYONE AND MADE HIMSELF A FUCKING RENTRY WHEN I BARELY EVEN REMEMBER HOW TO???? HOW THE FUCK DID HE FIGURE OUT THAT METADATA BULLSHIT WHAT.

WHAT.

(post by a shadow milk FICTIVE)

so, AFTER seeing my crush redesign a sprite of aerself to fit what he looks like in headspace, i went ahead and did TRIPLE that, because i'm BORED! click BELOW to see my "redesigns" of my subordinates and i.. i guess.

the ONLY one that is BARELY any different from the ACTUAL source is black sapphire. meanwhile, candy apple and i took some LIBERTIES!

this is what sol AND the body's boyfriend (he is ALSO a system) had to say about what I look like. YES, i'm saturated. YES, i'm a faggot. YES, i AM proud!

and DO NOT, i repeat, DO NOT post this to ANY cringe forums! IT'S IN OUR BIO!! this is JUST what i LOOK LIKE! GO AWAY!

MAY or may NOT be disguising myself as the host to a few people so MUCH that i'm forgetting what my inner voice sounds like... OOPS!!!

and i'm waiting for the host's boyfriend's pure vanilla alter — who i MAY or MAY NOT have a crush on — to edit aer model to show me how he actually looks...

ALSO, have an ugly photo of one of our cats as compensation!!!

and here is part 2. (groups & examples)

groups and shit uh. you don't have to sort it ALL out like this, but i like doing it this way.

obviously i can't put all the examples there because of the godforsaken image limit BUT. you get the gist right.

simply plural format (f2u without credit) part 1

(profile & members) (also symbols)

LOOOOOOOONG simply plural stuff below.

we're kinda renovating our simply plural and figured heyyyy why not share our format to the public. because it's COOL.

click the cut below to uhhh see all that shit

our profile, and system member format, unfilled. enable markdown obviously. this is only part 1. but here are the symbols and formats we use. copy paste on browser because mobile SUCKS.

symbols :

[‎ ‎ ‎] (space)

★

☆

ノ (japanese katakana "no" syllable, i personally use this instead of / purely for aesthetic appeal. use what you like)

◞◟

◠

♫

Ｏ１２３４５６７８９⠀⠀

﹕

͏͏͏͏͏͏➝

⌗

— (em dash, available on most/all mobile keyboards)

¹ ² ³ ⁴ ⁵ ⁶ ⁷ ⁸ ⁹ ⁰ (exponents, also available on most/all mobile keyboards)

formats :

![](image

all about **name** .

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ @ name

‎ ‎ ‎ **appearance** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **xenogender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**gender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **‎orientation** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**misc. labels** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◠◠ ‎ ‎ @ ♫

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ xxx¹ ‎ xxx² ‎ xxx³ ‎ xxx⁴

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◟ terms

☆⠀⠀.⠀⠀name⠀⠀⠀⠀emoji⠀⠀♬

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀prn⠀⠀age

⠀⠀⠀﹕⠀⠀roles . roles

⠀⠀⠀⠀

͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ➝ ﹐ info . info

simply plural format (f2u without credit) part 1

(profile & members) (also symbols)

LOOOOOOOONG simply plural stuff below.

we're kinda renovating our simply plural and figured heyyyy why not share our format to the public. because it's COOL.

click the cut below to uhhh see all that shit (also CHECK MY REBLOGS/PROFILE for part 2) (please and thank you)

our profile, and system member format, unfilled. enable markdown obviously. this is only part 1. but here are the symbols and formats we use. copy paste on browser because mobile SUCKS.

symbols :

[‎ ‎ ‎] (space)

★

☆

ノ (japanese katakana "no" syllable, i personally use this instead of / purely for aesthetic appeal. use what you like)

◞◟

◠

♫

Ｏ１２３４５６７８９⠀⠀

﹕

͏͏͏͏͏͏➝

⌗

— (em dash, available on most/all mobile keyboards)

¹ ² ³ ⁴ ⁵ ⁶ ⁷ ⁸ ⁹ ⁰ (exponents, also available on most/all mobile keyboards)

formats :

![](image

all about **name** .

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ @ name

‎ ‎ ‎ **appearance** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **xenogender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**gender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **‎orientation** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**misc. labels** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◠◠ ‎ ‎ @ ♫

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ xxx¹ ‎ xxx² ‎ xxx³ ‎ xxx⁴

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◟ terms

☆⠀⠀.⠀⠀name⠀⠀⠀⠀emoji⠀⠀♬

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀prn⠀⠀age

⠀⠀⠀﹕⠀⠀roles . roles

⠀⠀⠀⠀

͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ➝ ﹐ info . info

okay so since uhh. my request for someone to make a flag got declined and i kinda for the most part chilled out, i decided to make my own flag.

if anyone wants to redesign it pleaaaase go ahead. i had no ideas for the flag aside from the persecutor flag by epikulupu. the inside is also inverted from said flag, to either symbolize the specific part that is different, or the rest of the system that is different — you decide.

who won?! who's next?! you decide! (reference)

but yeah um. say hello to my shittily made flag.

— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

(anyone is free to make a flag for this, as well as post it on pluralpedia!)

a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.

— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

(CHECK MY REBLOGS FOR THE FLAG!)

a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

this term is not to be directly forced upon someone in a system. this term also does not support harmful actions taken in real life (including rad//queer "transitioning"), and is only for online usage due to the sensitive nature of such a concept. please use this role with care.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.

ok i just saw some dumb shit on an anti-end0genics blog, not saying who because i dont want them to be attacked either. i only searched so i could block them HAHA

but... aspen? as in the person who has consistently fakeclaimed other systems for not being what a system 'should be' in their eyes? the person who removed pluralkit and then called people who complained larpers? the same person who has called other systems delusional fakers? among other really shitty things to say to people who are mentally ill, and most likely minors (bc, cmon. tiktok is full of children)? are we REALLY talking about the same person?

like, i support (and am part) of the endogenic community myself but there is no way in hell that aspen is a supporter of endogenics. if anything, aspen is a bootlicker of psychiatry (which, though it is incredibly useful, there are things that are either not explained by it, or there are more vague and broad experiences that others have) and a spreader of harmful misinformation that harms both traumagenics and endogenics alike. you are literally only saying that because you dislike them.

(if anyone is reading this and knows who the blog is, do NOT post this on there. the last thing i need is to get attacked but legitimately that is a STUPID take)

hi all! anyone can interact with this post regardless of syscourse stance, but ive realized that the carrd to the syscourse code was deleted for whatever reason. im not sure of why as such, heres a link to the last web archive of it, for anyone who wants to continue to use it without scouring the internet for answers to the questions. (if the original creator of the carrd sees this post and wants me to delete it for any reason, i will!) click here for the wayback archive!

tw: drugs, weed

So does anyone else notice that when they smoke/are high that some others (I still haven't found a word I like) are more likely and/or easier to front? Like in the past some of them didn't like the feeling and would avoid front. I've noticed that there are particular others that consistently are okay with fronting while high. It's kind of strange and definitely I think contributes to my denial and confusion. Unfortunately now days I am more likely to be high to some degree than sober. Dissociation also feels different when high which is another factor. It's just so hard to quit. (This post isn't about that, though ...)

Anyways...am I alone here?

Petition: Upholding Plural Rights and Plural Voices

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Petition to Address Ableist and Sanist Content at the ISSTD Conference and McLean Hospital

Can you spare a minute to help this campaign?

The International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation (ISSTD)  recently had a panel conference on “DID and social media,” featuring harmful and offensive content denouncing self-diagnosis and spreading the narrative that most systems online are faking it for the attention. In this conference, they showed footage of several Systems, without their consent, in order to publicly shame them and use them as examples of the “Imitative DID” that they claimed was rampant online. As a non-disordered System, we stand with those with DID and against those who would spread harmful claims that a majority of Plurals are lying about their Plurality for online clout.

This petition was created by The Plural Association, an organization created by and for Plurals, including those with professionally diagnosed DID.

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The first and so far only, grassroots and peer-led, registered nonprofit and warmline for people with dissociative identity disorder & all o

If you wish to donate, donate to The Plural Association. DO NOT DONATE TO CHANGE.ORG! THEY DO NOT PUT YOUR MONEY TOWARDS THE PETITION YOU SIGNED!!!

I don’t know if a term like this exists already so I made my own and I’m sharing it

Dark Moon- A Headmate/Tupla or subsystem that only appears while another headmate/Tulpa or whole other system is asleep or temporarily dormant. Dark moons are, in my system, typically darker (not necessarily evil, villainous, or even edgy) in personality and almost like or the antithesis or evil twin/complete opposite of whatever headmate/tulpa/system they replace, but not entirely and if you use this term they don’t have to be. They can also possess the negative traits of the tulpa/headmate/system they replace but bigger and worse. Headmates who are dark moons can call themselves Dark Moons, Black Lunettes/Black Lunets, or Dark Lunettes/Lunets if they like any of those terms.

Temporary Dark Moon flag

purples for magic and mystery, vaguely related

reds for dark personalities

shadow overlay to represent their existence

it's because they are :> <3

Headmate who (with much love in his heart) calls the others losers

.

If I make this blog a manual for how to stalk, manipulate and kidnap me maybe I'll finally meet the love of my life

∆ ««« System Overview

We're the L-System ("Leo" or "Lilly"), pychotic incel faggot-tranny loser (he/him, any).

We have relationships between system members (4-8, on&off for at least 4 years). feel free to ask us about it

We tried dating externally many times but it never worked. We're too much of a freak for normies and we never felt properly bonding with anyone else. i really just want to obsessively fall in love with a cutely controlling/manipulative boyfriend-girlfriend, is that too much to ask?!

»»» ∆ TransIDs and MUDs

Our body is an adult and our system and subsystems consists of 12 main alters, . : we're transitioning to psychotic and delusional with weed and adderall. : it feels nice when ppl online encourage us 🥺

cisids: autism, adhd, cptsd, ptsd, bpd, npd

Our transid list is always changing so some of these might change, altho others definitely won't.

radqueer, gay, genderfuck, aro/ace, transage, permahigh, permastoned, permadrugged, permateen, sex doll, prey, victim,

transharmed, transpsychotic, transdelusional, transamputee (?), transdentures, transabusevictim, transforcedsh, transsuibait, transed, transanorexia, transana, (corpse) )

We also experience "some" MUDs:

• Mirror Infatuation Identity Disorder

« ∆ » Other labels

Some of us identify with the labels retard, faggot, cripple and probably some other ableist slurs that I forgot rn.

DMs and asks open if u really wanna know. pls be nice 🥺

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

(fuck nazis transphobes sexists racists etc etc)

bf and I are doing movie night and we're both so giddy about it uwu

we put up a mirror next to our seat so we can turn to each other to make jokes and it feels validating as fuck,,

We started dating again and I'm his phone wallpaper 🥺🥺

wondering if the #pro delusional community still exists somewhere

anti-endo logic: endogenic systems don't exist, quick, bully them until they develop enough trauma to become a REAL plural

"You must have trauma to be a system"

"You must have dysphoria to be trans"

This is truly beautiful work <3

wonderful

i don't know if we will leave this up, because we aren't sure if it comes across how we would like. but the alter who wrote this, yellowfang, has wanted to create it for some time, so we opted to try.

we, once again, apologize for any art style inconsistencies. the comic artwork itself was worked on by several of us.

Okay wait I just had an epiphany about my role here. Bear with me.

Was thinking about how many of us are demons, demonic, demon related and how funny it was that I’m vibing here amidst all these demons when I’m an exorcist in source.

Then I thought about my demon bf from the canon divergent memories and it clicked like. My best friend in system is a demon and I just vibe with these guys that be struggling with humanity and feeling lovable and I think that’s my role here.

I’m the demon bitches emotional support dog. Lmfao.

Do I??? Do I kin Barry fucking Blue Jeans from taz???? Fuck dude. Screaming crying throwing up in this Chili’s listening to the last episode of the stolen century arc. I cannot kin another hopelessly love struck dork.

Watch me split a Barry fictive, actually. It’s a perfect storm up in here of stress + hyperfocus. Someone end my suffering.

its so nice to take a break from fronting all the time. im always so much more relaxed when i come back.

its great and i really have to do it more.

HEY EVERYONE CHECK OUT MY MASSIVE P-

-air of wings

leaned that we can basically shapshift in headspace if we want to.

of course i immediately used this new power to give myself massive wings

-(pilot)

i never asked to be plural, but i wouldnt change it for the world.

i cant imagine a better group of people to share my life with.

-(pilot)

i dont like the term host,

i mean it is what i am, but i dont like the connotations connected to it. the idea that im the "real one" or that im in charge somehow.

or maybe it just makes me think of the word "parasite" when i hear it.

either way, i think i much prefer the using the term "pilot" to desctibe my place in the system.

i think that it describes what i actually do without the same negative connotations (and also our fronting room is a literal cockpit so it fits)

sometimes being plural is comforting each other during our hardest moments,

and other times its a passionate argument over question of "what is the biggest rock in the solar system?" that ends with the conclusion that the earth is a cream egg.

yes absolutely,

we first discoved our system about 6 months ago, and yeh it seemed scary at first, but getting to know each other and learning to work together as a team has honestly been the best experience of our life.

i love how we all support each other in whatever we need, how we work together to better care for the system as a whole. i dont know what i would do without everyone else in here with me.

we love being plural and wouldnt trade it for the world.

question 15: Do you enjoy being a system?

(submitted by anon)

But what if your headmates force you to do something you dont want to?

My headmates:

"you know you should probably go for walk, some fresh air would make you feel better."

"You shouldnt stay up so late, your only going to make yourself tired in the morning."

"you should make a sandwich instead of just snacking all day."