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Both of which called America a corrupt capitalist dictatorship that would never accept black people as long as there was profit
Also “actual leaders” you really are a racist aren’t you? White washing history that is inconvenient to your feelings and narrative and throwing away the struggles and suffering of the movement and black people in this nation
The free Palestine movement is its own worst enemy. And has harmed Palestinian statehood more than helped it. They've embraced cultthink and anyone who agrees with them, even if they're awful people. They've convinced themselves they're on the right side of history, and any criticism, internal or external is invalid. They ignore facts that contradict their slogans. It is not a movement based on love, it is based on hate and grievance. They cannot and will not compromise, because of bullshit ideas of ideological purity.
They think they're heirs of the Civil Rights movement. They're not. The Civil Rights Movement was pragmatic in its targets and goals. This movement wants an entire country abolished. The Civil Rights Movement was well-organized and disciplined. This movement is neither. Ok, maybe well-organized, but that's beside the point. The Civil Rights movement looked to build. These fuckers want to destroy. They are an antithesis of the Civil Rights Movement. They're more like the maga movement than they would ever admit because both of them are just hateful, bigoted tantrums.
Genuinely, fuck this movement.
Now the terfs are attacking the bussy?
Lady don’t be jealous of the twinks and twonks just because they are cuter and more femme than you will ever be at their worst and your best.
Radblr, we need to stop defending gay men. They fetishize our bodies by calling their anus "pussy" and yet turn around and call bodies disgusting
They try to claim sisterhood so they can use slurs against us
They go over seas and exploit womens wombs for their picket fence fantasy
Stop caring about these men because at the end of the day they're men who exploit us just the same
Tell me you don’t know shit about the civil rights movement movement without telling me …..
Many leaders of the civil rights movement wanted to abolish the US and called for violence against the state while backing groups like the Vietcong and indigenous groups opposed to American imperialism throughout the movement.
Based AF in other words
The free Palestine movement is its own worst enemy. And has harmed Palestinian statehood more than helped it. They've embraced cultthink and anyone who agrees with them, even if they're awful people. They've convinced themselves they're on the right side of history, and any criticism, internal or external is invalid. They ignore facts that contradict their slogans. It is not a movement based on love, it is based on hate and grievance. They cannot and will not compromise, because of bullshit ideas of ideological purity.
They think they're heirs of the Civil Rights movement. They're not. The Civil Rights Movement was pragmatic in its targets and goals. This movement wants an entire country abolished. The Civil Rights Movement was well-organized and disciplined. This movement is neither. Ok, maybe well-organized, but that's beside the point. The Civil Rights movement looked to build. These fuckers want to destroy. They are an antithesis of the Civil Rights Movement. They're more like the maga movement than they would ever admit because both of them are just hateful, bigoted tantrums.
Genuinely, fuck this movement.
So it’s just another word for a pretty boy but one that didn’t get laid?
Also of course they are at the bottom of the hierarchy, most of em are bottoms to begin with
cutecels...
Everyone catching strays with this one
Post that made me realize I had much to learn about my own perceptions and how they blind my perspective on such matters
the thing that pisses me off the most about this whole "haha trans men in womens bathrooms will make them reconsider" spin going around is that it basically pretends trans men and mascs of color dont exist and arent in very real danger
like, think about for even one second how, historically, white women have weaponized the perception of moc as inherently masculinely savage to get them killed for being threats to fragile helpless white girls
do you think the lady who calls 911 on black men birdwatching in the park is going to see a trans man of color in the womens bathroom and go "gosh! i never thought about it that way. you've really exposed the flaw in my arguement"? no. shes going to call security and that man will be brutalized or killed
(and dont even for a second think that woc will be safe either. i was getting side eyes and pointed questions long before i ever came out because my skin was brown and i had short hair. tmoc and our sisters arent fucking safe and we deserve better than being used as some white posters pithy "gotchya")
Yall fuckin mean and I encourage it to continue until his morale sinks so low he unalives himself
Fake news
The ceo wasn’t “murdered” clearly he had an accident and fell on some bullets and this poor innocent man is being unjustly punished for walking by the scene long after there was anything he could do
Really weird you aren’t even saying abuse is bad cause that means admitting Israel is in the wrong
I really hope all the women in your life know you would sooner let them be abused then take the L when you are wrong bro
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Nah it was me
I let Luigi take the fall while I was the mastermind and trigger puller
Get fucked CEOs
Right let’s try something simple for your apparently subhuman intelligence
If a man controls a woman’s entire life from her finances to who she can associate with is it fair to scream at her and blame her for not leaving him when he is abusive? Or is it his fault for being an abusive and controlling dickhead?
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Who has cut off Gaza from the rest of the world and made it impossible for them to build power plants under the excuse that they would use them to “be terrorists” in Israel …..
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I giggle like a stereotypical school girl every time I get to post this screenshot and I’m an grown cis man with a deep voice
Your excuse was “cause durr Hamas and we totally didn’t blockade them”
When Gaza was blockaded and all the evidence they dismantled their infrastructure to “build rockets” is fuckin Israeli sources which is less than reliable
So why do you believe a gov uncritically? Seems dangerous especially with far right and Neo Nazi govs coming to power all over the western world
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This is a million times worse when you learn about the same time this happened there was a pedophile teacher caught in Florida and she was allowed to continue teaching and wasn’t charged for her crimes. She went to a new district and started teaching within a month of being fired at her last job.
Republican states will unironically tolerate a pedophile abusing children in schools before they tolerate LGBTQ people
for some reason people in activism see masc and just toss someone into the “male oppressor” category and then tell them to shut up and be another body in the background but never to be seen as a person involved fully.
Also happens to butch lesbians sometimes too when they show up presenting fairly masc they get treated like shit or yelled at until they show they are women at pro women protests.
I spend more time on Reddit than Tumblr, and I feel like while the topic of transandrophobia is discussed less on Reddit, it definitely also faces a lot less backlash.
Over the past few days, I’ve seen multiple posts in the transmasc sub talking about transandrophobia both within and outside of the queer community (though they didn’t use that term). I‘m glad to see that it‘s even being discussed, but at the same time, I get really sad reading the comments and seeing all the horrible experiences transmascs have to deal with.
The most upvoted comment was from someone who said trans men were specifically asked not to speak at their local trans rights protest. When this person spoke out about this, they were told that trans men need to learn when to “shut the fuck up.” They were trying to speak as a representative of a local disability group, so they ended up without any representation, which makes it even more frustrating.
Idek, I‘m just tired.
We are talking about your naivety in taking a gov for its word instead of the mountains of evidence proving them wrong most produced by Israelis themselves protesting their govs actions
Turns out Israelis don’t like the blood and soil bs either and have constantly demanded the current regime step down and let democratic elections again
Yael Bar Tur
Russia showed evidence of Nazis and China can prove Taiwan is theirs …. Using lived experience of course
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If I say “white supremacy is bad” does that mean I hate all white people?
Explain how “Everything I hate is Zionism”/“For everything I hate I blame Zionism” isn’t just a rebranded “Everything I hate is Jewish”/“For everything I hate I blame the Jews”.
Especially when expressed thus, which doesn’t even try to interrogate what Zionism is but rather uses it as a pejorative.
Wow you don’t know anything outside what the gov tells you huh?
I guess you believe Russia when it says Ukraine is filled with Nazis and that China totally owns Taiwan too ?
Yael Bar Tur
The people currently wiping out Gaza for more breeding room ….
Also very racist take here assuming those areas weren’t the victims of constant colonialism and racism during the days of empires coming in from Europe and raping them for resources. One of the reasons we have issues in the Middle East right now is because of white Europeans cutting up the Middle East for resources and then leaving suddenly with almost not structural changes causing mass warfare as they sort out the scars of colonialism themselves
In light green: Origins of the Arab ethnic group In dark green: Current countries with an ethnically Arab majority, a Muslim majority, or a dominant Arab culture
In blue: Origins of the Jewish ethnic group In teal: Current countries with an ethnically Jewish majority, a religiously Jewish majority, or a dominant Jewish culture
Tell me again who the colonists are
Why did someone send me this and claim it was proof women’s rights were under attack?
Yeah women aren’t the only caregiver and often due to socialization they push males out of parenting roles and often undermine males in these situations.
It’s actually part of the whole “women have historically been the child raisers” narrative. As a society women see themselves as the only ones who know how to raise kids and we even specifically use women as symbols of good parents despite men being statistically just as good at parenting.
You aren’t being attacked by this and if you see this as an attack you are a brainwashed idiot who thinks women’s only role is a walking womb who is meant to push out spawn and then raise them while the rock person you are married too go and dies in a war or something.
Toxic moms vs Good Fathers
The Crucial Role of Fathers in Child Development and Overcoming Maternal Gatekeeping
As a psychotherapist, I've observed firsthand how deeply impactful a father's role is in a child's emotional, psychological, and behavioral development. Current research underscores the importance of paternal involvement, highlighting the structured, authoritative approach fathers commonly adopt, characterized by clear expectations, discipline, and consistent guidance. These aspects of fatherhood foster independence, emotional resilience, and social competence in children (Frontiers in Psychology, 2022).
Why Fathers are Essential
Fathers uniquely contribute to children's growth through structured play and consistent discipline, significantly influencing children's emotional regulation, academic performance, and social interactions. Research shows that children with engaged fathers exhibit improved cognitive development, better behavioral outcomes, and enhanced emotional stability. Conversely, the absence of a father correlates strongly with increased risks for mood disorders, behavioral problems, and difficulties with emotional regulation (PMC, 2023).
Understanding Toxic Maternal Gatekeeping
While mothers often excel at nurturing, some behaviors, especially maternal gatekeeping, can inadvertently hinder a father's involvement. Maternal gatekeeping refers to behaviors where a mother may limit or restrict the father's access to the child, often through criticism, control, or undermining his parenting efforts. This behavior frequently stems from unresolved attachment issues, emotional insecurity, or distrust, particularly among mothers who themselves lacked a father figure in their upbringing (PMC, 2016).
Maternal gatekeeping not only undermines paternal engagement but can perpetuate generational cycles of absenteeism. Women raised without fathers are more likely to experience similar patterns in their own families, leading to ongoing familial dysfunction and emotional instability (Fatherhood.org, 2023).
Economic and Emotional Challenges in Father-Absent Households
Families without an actively involved father, particularly single-mother households, commonly experience economic hardships, increased stress, and limited social support. These stressors can negatively impact children's psychological and emotional well-being, highlighting the need for paternal presence to provide stability and structure. In contrast, single-father households typically report higher incomes and better resource accessibility, underscoring the socio-economic advantages of paternal involvement (Pew Research Center, 2013).
Strategies for Overcoming Maternal Gatekeeping
Fathers facing toxic maternal gatekeeping can employ several effective strategies:
Open Communication: Initiate respectful, non-confrontational discussions focused on the child's best interests.
Clearly Defined Roles: Establish written agreements outlining parental responsibilities and visitation.
Legal Support: Consult legal professionals early and document interactions meticulously.
Mediation and Therapy: Engage in mediation or family counseling to facilitate healthy co-parenting communication.
Parenting Education: Participate in parenting workshops to strengthen parenting skills and demonstrate commitment.
Child-Centric Approach: Prioritize the child's emotional health and consistently avoid negative speech about the other parent.
Strong Emotional Connections: Maximize quality time to build trust and strengthen bonds with the child.
Professional Support: Utilize individual and child-focused counseling to navigate emotional challenges and familial tensions.
Conclusion
As a psychotherapist, I've witnessed the transformative impact that involved fathers can have on their children's lives. Addressing and overcoming maternal gatekeeping behaviors is critical for fostering healthier family environments. By advocating for structured paternal involvement, supporting co-parenting strategies, and understanding the root causes of gatekeeping, we can significantly improve children's developmental outcomes, ensuring emotional, social, and psychological health for generations to come.
References
Frontiers in Psychology (2022). "The Role of Fathers in Child Development." https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.772023/full
PMC (2023). "Psychological Effects of Father Absence." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5648344
PMC (2016). "Maternal Gatekeeping and Father Involvement." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4922533
Fatherhood.org (2023). "Father Absence and Intergenerational Patterns." https://www.fatherhood.org/father-absence-statistic
Pew Research Center (2013). "The Rise of Single Fathers." https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/07/02/the-rise-of-single-fathers
Source: Toxic moms vs Good Fathers
That entire first bit is you degrading women down to their basic components like a misogynist would. Why do terfs constantly insist womenhood is just “yeah womb and tits is about it” like it’s some own? Lady the patriarchy wants you to be defined by your biology cause it’s used as a weapon against women and historically has been the key point to oppression by the patriarchy.
You also don’t know anything about the titanic and you claiming the “women and children first” thing is about vulnerable class? Lady it was done that way cause of patriarchy. You as a woman under this standard is WEAK and panic prone therefore you were evacuated first cause you couldn’t handle the situation like a man would the stronger sex. It wasn’t protecting you so much as stating “women are too weak to handle this send them away to cry while MEN take care of the problems”.
You are so lost in your sauce you push the patriarchy like an incel or right winger. Go read some feminist theory and then try again cause you would get a zero in any women’s study course with this nonsense.
No it hasn’t Israel has kept corps and govs out of it basically blockading it like we did with North Korea and Russia
They denied a US corp entry a right after they “let Gaza go” claiming it was there to arm the militants. It was an agricultural corp wanting to sell equipment to the locals ….
They also control all water, electricity and building materials coming into Gaza and have shut those off consistently since they “let Gaza go” and don’t even get me started on their sweep ops which level entire neighborhoods and kill hundreds of civilians cause Israelis are weak and pathetic people too cowardly to fight an actually opponent so they fight like Russian orcs and bombard entire square miles when they see a brown person
Yael Bar Tur
I think my favorite thing about warhammer 40k just having the setting as a back drop for quieter moments. A guardsmen sitting in the dirt and enjoying a ration, or a child handing a space marine a flower just feels so much more real and impactful when you have the image of eternal war in the back of your mind. Like there is an unimaginable level of death and suffering in the imperium alone, but its still a place where people live. And sometimes nice things still happen.
California has a better economy than the UK. California is woke AF and generally accepting of migrants, minorities and LGBTQ people. The UK is terf island and filled with reactionary old losers who still think they are an empire and get mad when you call their rat hole “terf island” and “America’s EURO gas station”.
Therefore we can conclude that migrants, LGBTQ people and wokism does in fact make you an economic powerhouse while being losers that suck and lose constantly makes you a worthless ball of dirt that I wouldn’t even piss on if it was on fire.
Get fuckin rekt bri’ish losers
“Oh just because I wear a swastika, seig heil, supported the Nazis, worked for the Nazis and was a member of the Nazi party for over a decade that SUDDENLY MAKES ME A NAZI? You radical liberals call everyone a Nazis kek”
“We control the area completely and refuse to let outsiders in to help so we can hold Palestinians hostage in an open air concentration camp” - Israeli officials
Imagine if an Arab nation was doing this shit to a Jewish diaspora? They would be sanctioned and bombed to the Stone Age overnight
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