You know how that saying goes, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all".
I feel like there is a desperate need to bring "if you have something nice to say, don't hesitate at all".
We often fail to realise that when you see something nice or pretty in someone, it's very important that you let them know in the most polite words possible. It's not that hard. If anything, it's the thing that comes most naturally to us social animals.
Most people deal with issues related to self image and sometimes it's important that they get to know how nicely people see them, without having to ask. It brings them out of their own mind.
You might think "oh my god their hair is so fluffy and wavy today i love it" and keep silent and all along they might be thinking that their hair looks wild and like an animal and they hate this much volume and they wish their hair had normal fluff. It's just an example, ykwim.
So if you think something is nice about somebody, who does not need to even be close to you, DON'T HESITATE AT ALL.
Most people never hesitate while being "brutally honest" but will hold every word back when there's something nice to say, cuz they wanna look cool somehow?? I never got that math.
There's no need to lie either, if you don't have anything nice to say, you can always say nothing at all.
But if you do, please for the sake of this world, let that person know. We never know how much someone might need that. And it will always keep the cycle running, of noticing nice things about others and IN TURN, YOURSELF. Cuz how can you hate something in yourself which you found really nice in someone else!
Let's make our society a kind and nice space.
If you have something nice to say, don't hesitate at all!
Thanks @intoxicatednits for the tag!
Mine is INFP- the idealist's booklist.
So lovies many of you are into books (these are classics) and here is list according to MBTI.
And I'm in love with these
OH GOSH!!! Looking forward to know about yours buddies!!!
Ahhhh perfect and pure fantasy of love ✨💜
jazz music is just so great and romantic like yes just spin me around and dance with me in the kitchen while sinatra croons on the shitty radio we own and just love me love me love me
If you can't
respect her ,
even as much
as your fellow 'men', your 'bros',
don't even bother
loving her
in the first place.
Cuz you don't even know
that respect is above
all the love that you can show.
Love comes complimentary
with respect and true care,
but they might not come along
with the sole love you show her.
Is it your poetic gaze, those damn poetic eyes, or just my poetic heart, the very reason why every part of you each way you exist, is the most beautfiul possession that i can ever call mine....
-mauli ♡
"Life is a series of random events that happen between birth and death.."
They said. They said out of utter innocence... Or maybe ignorance.
'Random' is when something SEEMS chaos.
Seems...
'Random' is when we can't understand or find a pattern, that satisfies our human brain.
But one day just
Stop. And observe .
Observe the tiniest bits,
instead of seeing the big picture,
look at the fine details.
That is when , you'll see.
In the mind of God
this world was created.
Nothing is random here.... Just so intricate ,
it is hard to comprehend .
But just try, and you'll realise ,
that it is not cliché
to say that ,
Everything happens for a reason ,
cuz it does.
Some butterfly, flapping its wings in any meadow in Australia,
can cause a hurricane in Africa and we'll never know.
not like it means to or even realises it can ,
but it can .
Growing up in this world is strange.
As people get older,
friends become the family they choose,
and family-by-birth?
well, it starts to come second to everything.
It grows apart.
It becomes stranger.
Strangers, whom we aren't responsible for,
whom we don't wish to understand,
whos presence start to make us feel embarrassed.
And relatives, oh, the biggest villains of us GenZs.
They make our lives miserable, they lower our self esteem, they gossip a LOT!
Really? Hmmm,
Well, were they the villains when they clapped for you while you had two left feet?
Were they the worst, when they gave you gift money as blessing every time they saw you?
Were they the gossipers when they spread smallest of your success in whole wide world?
Yeah, growing up here is strange,
Where Strangers become family ,
And family...
It becomes too much to handle...
-mauli
Sometimes the scenarios i make up in my head amaze me.
They are so beautiul, so dreamy, so perfect, so much *needed*, it makes my heart ache from the thought that they can never come true, not ever in the exact same dreamy manner as they do in my mind. I would never find that perrffectt person and never will those deliberate- indeliberate touches and talks and gazes and moments happen...
It leaves me longing and hopeless, I guess my expectations from life , at moments, become too far-fetched.
The only way out, to turn them into reality, is to-
write down the scenario,
develop a story that is actually comprehensible (paiinnnn),
write a novel,
knock doors of publishing houses,
get it published,
work to make it a bestseller,
become a filmwriter and director,
find a producer,
get external validation for script and find rest of the crew ;))
find the perfect music that goes with my fantasy,
find the handpicked perfect cast,
and make it into a adaptation movie.
(excuse the inaccuracy my process. i am not well acquainted with all this, at least not in this universe, but that is just how i imagine)
Then all my dreams *might* come true. Is it too much? or a bare neccesity for my dream to reality journey, i will never know i guess...
(this also totaly disrupts my path of pursuing STEM career, leaving another dilemma at my hand. Life just wouldnt stop being so *REAL*, now, would it ? :I Now my options are a) Reincarnation, b) discover multiverse and travel to the universe where i did write a novel and make a movie about it, by myself, and watch that.... arghh the things we do for the love of love )
this was just a thought, no self-emotions were hurt in this post (ok, maybe a few) (excruciating pain right in middle of heart, a major headache here and there.)
We are mosaics --
pieces of light,
love,
history,
stars--
Glued together
with
magic
and music
and words.
- Anita Krizzan