queer and judgmental
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I would like to congratulate greta thunberg on being the only funny person on twitter
I can’t believe I would have to start tagging spoilers for the show like the pjo book came out 10 years ago it’s old news that Luke was the villain move on
crazy that all those 13 year old girls clocked dan and phil so hard. like mustve been intensely fucked up and invasive etc etc but so crazy that 13 year old girls worldwide were like those men are secretly gayandinlove and they literally were
was bored and decided to make a pjo boys misogyny scale
phil’s editing appreciation post <3
this is my first art post of my original art :) im open to feedback and critique! hope you like <3
Has a silk bathrobe
Avowed bachelor
Wears a hat of someone else’s choosing
i thought it was just me
the feminine urge to create a new playlist for every fictional couple i read about
the inherent shame of beginning… dont look at me while i learn
i only interact with like 10 blogs here then leave and watch from the sidelines
"kill yourself": overdone and unoriginal. amateurish, even. honestly more embarrassing for you than the person you say it to.
"if we were both shiny objects a crow would choose me over you": devastating. an insult that you'll never forget for as long as you live. there's no coming back from this one.
Here is a fun purple folie wallpaper that i just edited
personally i have a really hard time choosing between the folie and mania aesthetic so this is my remedy :D
My sexuality is a roller coaster up and down the spectrum
I didn't know bucket toothpaste was only a thing here!
getting so used to misgendering yourself around people you aren’t out to that you start to do it with people are out to
something as beau as this only comes around once in a life time. savor it
my gender is a mood that only the very wise can decode
If you can’t reblog this plz never talk to me
OOP THERE IT IS
it’s a harmful “every man for himself” kind of mentality. we’re shown that even if we ask for help we won’t be given it. like - for example - it took how long did it take to get a covid relief package???
The U.S. adores the concept of “individual responsibility” so long as it excuses society from taking any responsibility for the individual
I am trying to find a home for a local stray cat that I've been feeding. He is a neutered male tabby, very friendly, very talkative and loves attention. I've been calling him Lovey.
I have no space for him in my house, as I already have three cats. I've been feeding him for a while.
He is in the DFW (Dallas Fort Worth) area of Texas.
If you are willing to take him and give him a loving indoor life, please message me!
Let’s talk about sharing information on the Internet. Some of y’all don’t seem to know basic Internet safety, and it shows. In the last two days, I have witnessed seven different blogs become the target of bullies, and what do they have in common? They have DNIs that include their triggers. Hell, even I listed mine at one point. While including those may seem like a good idea at first for followers so that they can tag continent that is particularly triggering toward you, it is a double-edged sword. Let us use an example.
You have snakes as a trigger warning. Your mutuals know to tag posts that include snakes so you can filter them. But the second that someone doesn’t like you, the moment you do something to piss them off, they can use that information to hurt you. Suddenly, your inbox is full of images of snakes. Even if you have anon turned off, it is so easy to make another Tumblr blog that isn’t blocked and you can simply dump shit on.
Another common thread between these blogs is that many of them had other social media accounts linked such as Instagram, which uses the location of their users when tagging photos. Boom. They have your location. And if you are a minor, you become a target of creeps. This is exactly what happened to a blog I was made aware of because it was getting so much anon hate and being doxxed.
Even though I have an extensive DNI, I am starting to wonder if they do more harm than good. If someone is pissed off at you, do you think they’re going to go to your do not interact and make sure it’s OK for them to send it to you? I have been explicit in saying that anon hate doesn’t mean anything to me unless it is said to my face, and yet I receive many anon hates a day. I am almost 26. I have dealt with bullying my entire life. That stuff doesn’t phase me, but when I joined Tumblr and I was around 16, and someone sent me anon hate, I would crumble.
Speaking of age, this is for minors: do not include your age. If you must, just state that you are a minor. Some people will act differently towards someone who is almost 18 as opposed to a 15 year old. If you include your zodiac signs, both western and Chinese, someone can pinpoint your general birthdate. It’s not smart.
So why do I care? Because after 10 years on this hellsite, I have seen a lot, and I would like to think that I have learned something. And as someone who has dealt with private security in a sense, I am increasingly concerned. It is not the fault of individuals who share private information when it is used against them. That is entirely on an abuser. But it does make it a hell of a lot easier.
Tumblr is horrible with its anti-bullying policy. Tumblr will not take down anon hate or go after people who send death threats. They don’t care. I wish that using anonymous was a privilege, and it was something that could be taken away. There should be more safety measures and reprimands for people who pull this shit. But until then, we can only try to be safe on our own.
For more unsolicited Tumblr vet advice, see my #tumblrvetadvice tag.
REBLOG OR THIS POST IS USELESS
Put your music on shuffle, then reblog and put in the tags the first song that comes on! Let’s share music together.
why is this so fucking loud i didn’t want to get called out like this fuck
Sometimes you're just an introverted loser who sits alone in your room with a cup of tea and a book, has fantasies about morally grey fictional characters, is severely touch starved with a completely fucked up sleep schedule and slowly declining mental health.
oMG THE SOCKS
@danielhowell @amazingphil 🏡✨