someone: omg you're a writer? can i read-
me: *slams my laptop shut* what no who me i don't write who told you this that's not true-
Questions to help develop your otp. Pt1.
I present a list if questions to help gain insight into your precious fictional couples.
What real couples could they be compared to ? Why ?
What fictional couples could they be compared to ? Why ?
Who normally cooks ?
What do they do when they're away from each other ?
Do they have nick names for each other ? What ?
Who's more likely to pay for dinner?
Who steals the covers at night ?
Who remembers things ?
Who cusses more ?
Who kissed who first ?
Who made the first move ?
Who started the relationship ?
What would they do if the other was hurt ?
How did they both meet ?
What are their common interests ?
What's the individual goal for each character ?
What are their common goal ?
Do their goals conflict ?
What's the core for each character ?
How do they reveal their core to the other character?
What are their relationship expectations ?
Does either have an addiction?
In what areas do they worry about each other ?
How would each character feel if they had to leave for a time ? How would they react if they divorced or broke up?
How do they handle dividing up chores and household duties ?
Who's the breadwinner of the house ?
Do they ever resent each other ?
What activities do they enjoy together ?
What activities does one enjoy that the other doesn't ?
How do they fight or defend the other ?
How do they express love for each other ?( Eg acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, giving gifts ? Etc)
What values do they both share ?
Who takes more responsibility for their actions?
Who's more likely to give in and compromise?
Do they feel the same way about money ?
What habits do they have that makes the other unhappy ?( Eg: angry outbursts, annoying behaviors?etc )
What do they find the physically attractive about the other ?
What accomplishments do they most admire in each other ?
What small physical details does each love the most about the other ?
In what little ways did they disappoint each other?
How does each behave differently around the other ?
How does love make each character act irrationally?
How can each character tell how the other is feeling? Are they good at it or bad ?
How does being around each other change their thought process?
What do they share and talk about the most ?
What do they do in silent moments? What are they thinking about?
How do they spend time together usually?
What habits do they have that annoy the other ?
How do they react when the other is hurt or upset ? Do they try to help and how ?
How do they spend time on each other's hobbies or interests ?
A : walks in nude.
B : sees A and flustered/ panics , turning around . OMG !! What are doing ?! Why are you walking around like that ?!!
A: oh , this ? I'm wearing my porn suit. ( Replying unfazed )
B: your what - YOU'RE NAKED !!?!!
A: Exactly.
* Based on a traumatic true story...*
Conflict is at the heart of a good story, and some characters seem destined to butt heads. Of course, in some cases, the same characters may also have a lot in common. Some of the pairings on this list could be friends who bicker about a particular issue. Most of them could be true adversaries. They could even be enemies who wind up becoming friends or falling in love. Try writing about one of these pairs.
a vegan and a steakhouse owner
a warrior and a pacifist
soldiers of opposing armies
two people on opposing political campaigns
an evangelical minister and an atheist
a celebrity and a tabloid photographer
a moderator on a website and an Internet troll
a neat person and a slob
two people in love with the same person
a conservationist and a real estate developer
a cat lover and someone who’s scared of cats
a jock and a nerd
a doctor and a faith healer
a prince and an anti-monarchist
a modest person and a person with no inhibitions
owners of two competing shops or restaurants in a small town
a small business owner and the CEO of a big retail chain
a city lover and an outdoorsy type
a fugitive and a U.S. Marshal
an eternal optimist and a pessimist
two people vying for the same promotion at work
a district attorney and a public defender on the same case
a spendthrift and a miser
a school principal or headmaster and a juvenile delinquent
a human and an alien invader
Some of these things wouldn’t necessarily make a person feel lonely, but all of them could make someone feel that way.
He invites people to his birthday party, but all of them either cancel at the last minute or simply fail to show up.
People keep posting pictures from a party that she wasn’t invited to.
He doesn’t have anyone to celebrate Christmas or Valentine’s Day with.
She eats alone at a restaurant.
He sits alone at the movies or a baseball game.
He’s getting divorced, and their mutual friends are spending time with his wife and her new boyfriend.
She gets Christmas cards from married couples with pictures of them and their smiling children.
He’s in a group of people who have a lot of in-jokes he doesn’t understand.
She realizes that the woman she considers a best friend doesn’t feel the same way about her.
A group of his coworkers never invites him along to lunch.
She misses the dog who used to sleep at her feet.
He looks out of the window of his new apartment and wishes he’d never moved away from his hometown.
She comes across photos or cards from a family member who has since cut her off.
He’s in a foreign country where he doesn’t speak the language well— or at all.
She’s working a night shift all on her own.
He hears his partner or wife compliment someone else profusely, but s/he never compliments him.
He texted three people, and none of them texted him back.
She was excited to be invited to a party, only to realize it’s a “party” where you’re supposed to buy stuff.
He wakes up from a dream where he’s with his ex, his long-distance partner, his family, or a new group of friends, and he realizes it wasn’t real.
After buying a nice new outfit, she realizes she has no one to go out and do things with, so she has nowhere special to wear it.
He joined an online dating service and no one is showing any interest.
There’s a snack item in the vending machine that nobody ever wants, and she relates to it.
He plays board games with himself as a child…or as an adult.
She always asks other people about their health, their families, and their work. Nobody asks her how she’s doing.
He talks to a virtual assistant or computer program as though it’s a real person.
During career day a child announces that he would like to grow up to be a supervillain, shocking everyone.
He is from the family of the most powerful super heroes.
I’ve read a lot of fics, have seen many shows, and have watched many movies that are completely inaccurate when it comes to sparring. NOW, i know it’s fiction, and I greatly enjoy it nonetheless, but I would like to share a few things with you, as a person who trains in Historical European Martial Arts (HEMA). There are a few general things in this, as well as stuff more focused to a certain european weapon. (this is all Historical European stuff, obviously if you’re writing for a different region, this probably won’t apply that much.)
SPARRING
-you don’t practice with real sharp swords. Never. It’s incredibly dangerous, especially since sparring is trying to practice your killing/injuring skills. In older times, you would use wood, maybe wrapped in leather or canvas to practice. Today, you use weighted nylon swords/weapons, and you usually wear a mask while doing so. Steel is and was an option, but the blade will be completely dull, and the tip will be bent over itself.
-It’s practically impossible to knock someone off their feet while sparring, unless you are hooking your foot or weapon behind their leg. It’s hard to push back and cause someone to fall, since they can just retreat back a bit.
-YOU. DON’T. SPEND. HOURS. SPARRING. ESPECIALLY WITHOUT A BREAK. It’s exhausting, the most people usually go is 10 minutes before they have a break. During Training, you only spar for about 2-5 minutes before stopping and having a rest.
-You try your hardest never to cross your feet. It’s dangerous and it unbalances you. Your opponent can take advantage of you easily.
-Usually, you want to strike your opponent with the last ¼ of your blade, basically just the tip and a little below. That’s the sharpest point, and you get the most force behind it.
-Swords aren’t super heavy. Stop the giant, huge, I-can-barely-lift-this trope. Longswords are usually 3lbs. It’s not heavy when you pick it up. However, it gets heavy when you’re holding it up above your head for a while. Swords were not made to be heavy, especially since you would have to hold them up in battle for sometimes hours.
-It’s incredibly hard to engage in witty banter and such. You are constantly moving and trying to strike your opponent. Since it’s fiction, you can do what you want, but just know that trying to have a conversation while sparring is like trying to have one while running. It tires you out even more, and usually just comes out breathless and wheezy.
-Swords are not lightsabers. You cannot try and hurt someone with just any part of your blade. It will just annoy your opponent. Now, for sparring, you will want to focus on hitting your opponent with the edge of your blade, and you won’t really ever be trying to hit someone with the flat of your blade.
-In sparring, you will get hit. And get bruises. I count five from just 2 days ago. (Also reminder that bruises don’t form for 1-3 days.) If you happened to get a hard thrust to the ribs, they will probably fracture. It happens. I haven’t had it personally, but those who’ve trained longer have. The worst injury I’ve gotten is a bruise on my chest that didn’t fade for nearly a month.
-Grip!!! You don’t clutch your sword super tight. No. It limits movement. My instructor taught me to hold firmly with the thumb, pointer, and middle finger, and use the other two as more guiding fingers. You swing your sword with your wrist, not a big giant arm movement. That is tiring and slow.
I will be focusing on using a one handed sword in this next bit, specifically a Scottish Regimental Broadsword. A basic sword to build off of.
-FOOTWORK. It’s not a super complicated series of perfectly planned out steps. It just isn’t. With Regimental Broadsword (which is what I will focus on, since it’s what I’ve trained with most), you have to have a good base (rear-weighted stance, front foot pointed at your opponent, back foot turned sideways), and then once you have that, you just have to move around and try not to get hit.
-Slipping. (Continuation of footwork). With a rear-weighted stance, the goal is to be able to move the front foot anywhere. You should actually be able to keep your front foot an inch off the ground without having to adjust your back foot. Slipping is when this comes in handy. If your opponent takes a swing at your front leg, you should be able to just slip it back to go next to your other foot, and swing your sword up to get your opponents head. Slipping is really important.
-Advance and Retreat (other continuation of footwork). While moving forward or back, you always want to feel the ground with a heel-toe movement, so you can tell if there are rocks or branches and such. Advancing, you want to move your front leg first. Retreating, your back leg.
-Traversing (last continuation of footwork)(maybe). Transversing is basically advancing in on your opponent in a circular motion. You’re trying to get close and personal. Reminder to not cross your feet. You will loose balance and probably end up getting whacked with a sword. Traversing is a spiral motion sort of. Your opponent can avoid getting trapped If they do it as well.
I will probably come back and add more soon, because there’s more I know, but can’t remember at the moment.
"I'm not sure what to do with all these feelings for you."
"you're blind- you're so blind! why would i even do half the things that i do for you for anybody if i wasn't head over heels for them!"
"you really can't tell, can you?" A says. "I'm embarrassed by my feelings for you. I'm so dumb for keeping them alive. i love you. there. you heard it. happy now?"
"i wish i could spell your name with the stars."
"i think we both need a therapist to figure out whatever the hell this is." A mumbles against B's lips. "It's getting to my head."
"Me?" A asks. "Are you sure? Out of the billions of people out there, I'm the one you chose to love?"
"I'm not sure how long i can go on for without driving myself insane with all this love for you. Please just... just do with this confession what you will and set me free."
"I like how obsessed with me you are," A smiles. "Makes me feel like the most important person in the whole world."
"Stop smiling. It does things to me I'd rather not talk about."
How to write it
How to write romance
Love Language - Showing, not telling love
Love Language - Showing you care
Honeymoon
Slow burn
Forbidden Romance (+ prompts)
Reasons for a break-up while still loving each other
How to write a wedding
How to create quick chemistry
How to write enemies to lovers (+ prompts)
How to write lovers to enemies to lovers
Arranged matrimony for royalty (+ prompts)
Date gone wrong
Academic rivals to lovers
Romantic Fall Date Ideas
How to write a polyamorous relationship
Milestones in a relationship
How to write age difference
Fluffy Kiss Scene
Reasons a couple would divorce on good terms
Prompt Lists
Romance Prompt List Part I + Part II + Part III + Part IV
Bad ones, unrequited, break-up Part I + Part II
Flirting - Successful and unsuccessful Part I + Part II
Two smart and also stupid people in love
Push and pull romantic prompts
Co-workers - Hate to love
Lovers to enemies
Love to hate relationship
Romantic One-Liners Part I
Smutty One-Liners Part I + Part II + Part III
Physical One-Liners Part I + Part II
Jealousy + Things said during sex prompts
OTP Christmas Prompts
Fluffy Winter Holiday Prompts
Prompts about kissing
Romance Sentence Starters
Romantic Question Prompts
Domestic Fluff Prompts
Fluff Prompts
Romantic, non-sexual intimacy prompts
OT3 Prompts
OT3 ideas
Royalty Prompts - Loyal companion x Princess Romance
Royalty Prompts - Prince/ss x Commoner - Revealing royal heritage
Royalty Prompts - Knight x Princess
Fake Dating Royalty Prompts
Forbidden royal love prompts
Arranged matrimony for royalty
Arranged Marriage Royalty AU Events
Royal Arranged Marriage Dialogue Prompts
Hurt/Comfort Dialogue Prompts
Hurt/Comfort Prompts
Caring for their partner prompts
Roommates to Lovers Prompts Part I + Part II
Professor/TA Romance
Friends with benefits to lovers Prompts
Flirting Prompts - Oblivious and flirty
Teasing Prompts
Unrequited Love Prompts
Dramatic/Break-up Dialogue Prompts
Romance Dialogue Prompts – Uncomfortable with affection
Matchmaking Prompts
Valentine’s Day Prompts
Fake Dating/Marriage/Engagement Prompts
Fake Dating Dialogue Prompts
Fake Dating AUs
Fake Dating Prompts
Fake Dating Scenarios
Fake Relationship Break-up Prompts
Hand-holding
Kisses
Hugs
Touching
Physical Reactions
Casual Affections
Accidental Kisses
Seeking out physical affection
Love Confessions
Love confession - Screaming at each other
Drunken Love Confessions
Lovers being caught Prompts
Ways to say ‘I love you’
Love Triangle Ideas
Soulmates AUs
Second chance trope
Cooking/Baking Dialogue Prompts
Quiet movie night Prompts
Exes to lovers
Reluctant allies to friends to lovers dynamic
Best friends to lovers Prompts
Childhood friends to lovers Prompts
Co-workers - Hate to love (1 + 2)
Matchmaking at Work Prompts
Secret Dating at Work Prompts
50 Cute Date Ideas
Moving in together
Introducing partner(s) to family
Meeting the family Prompts
Proposal Prompts
Elopement Prompts
Parallel Universe Romance Prompts (x)
Lover being hurt Prompts
Relationship Problems
Relationship Changes
OTP Prompt Challenge
Enemies to Lovers Masterpost
‘Imagine your OTP’ Prompts
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resting your head gently on their shoulder
them running their fingers through your hair
them gently tilting your chin
and looking into your eyes
so that your eyes lock in a deep gaze
placing a soft kiss on their forehead
interlocking your fingers while holding hands
back hugs back hugs back hugs
embracing them from a sudden hug from behind
and whispering in their ears, “i love you,”
soft kisses on both cheeks and tip of the nose.
cupping your face in their hands and them telling you, “you. you are the one i love.”
requested by: anon request: How do I write a good kiss scene? As how do I describe it? What details or words would make it good?
What goes into the writing of a kiss scene?
details to incorporate:
the sensations in their stomach, their chest, and their knees
the way their breathing changes shortly before the kiss
the feeling of the other's hands
the texture of the other's clothing
the moment they realise they've reached the point of no return
the feeling they're left with after the kiss
words to use...
... to describe the kiss:
tentative
tender
hesitant
quick
soft
gentle
delicate
languid
feathery
familiar
exploring
hungry
heated
fiery
frantic
impatient
sloppy
messy
aggressive
... to describe how they feel about the kiss:
nervous
excited
giddy
anxious
apprehensive
ambiguous
surprised
reassured
certain
confident
relieved
eager
greedy
... to show what the lips do:
exploring each other
brushing over each other
locking
devouring
touching
sealing
pressing against each other
capturing
lapping
tasting
crushing together
travelling (the other's body)
trailing (down to the other's chin)
grinning into the kiss
caressing
lingering
... to show how their body reacts:
feeling warm all over
buzzing
humming
pumping/palpitating heart
clenching lungs
joy bubbling up
tingly stomach
warm chest
burning cheeks
sweaty palms
blood rushing through their veins
... to describe what their hands are doing:
tangling in their lover's hair
wrapping their arms around their lover's neck
intertwining their fingers with their lover
resting on their lover's hips
pressing into their lover's shoulder blades
cupping their lover's cheeks
touching their lover's chin
curling their arm around their lover's waist
resting on their lover's shoulders
grabbing their lover's collar
sneaking up under their lover's shirt
brushing over their lover's bare skin
lightly squeezing their lover's butt
focus on:
the sensations instead of what's physically happening. (the protagonists might very well not know themselves what is happening exactly, but they feel very precisely)
I hope this helps <3