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Oh lord I have to watch wolf of wall street once a week so I can dream about exactly that

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How do you screen? There's nothing in Canada you can use :(

I know in Canada it’s a little more difficult, but honestly Google is your best friend - you just have to channel your inner FBI/stalker status!

I always start out on Google and usually once you start to search you’ll find out bits of information that you can add to your search & use to help you find more stuff. 

I google any info he gives me access to:- His name- His name + province or state he lives in - His name/email + popular social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn etc)- His email (I’ve found a lot info by just googling the beginning of his email before the @).- His phone number - His username (It seems silly but unless it’s tailored to the site a lot of these men use the same damn username for all manner of sites/memberships they have)- His job/company (if he’s shared that with me)*If he doesn’t give you his company name or tell you what he does doing these google search combinations usually will tell me what he does.

Just from Google I’ve found things such as all parking tickets dated back to 1991 for one POT and lawsuits/patents that another POTs company has been involved with etc. If I can find his social media or even any social media belonging to his family members I always make sure to creep because you can get a lot of info that way. 

I Google Reverse Image search any pictures he’s sent me to let me know if he’s jacked one from the internet. Sometimes you’ll get lucky and he’ll have used a picture from one of his social media sites which eliminates another step. 

Hotmail believe it or not has also turned into a really helpful tool to start my screening process. I try to get his email as soon as possible and once I email him from my account if he has a Facebook account associated with the email he gives me once I’ve sent the email that pops up without you even doing anything (I don’t think they realize)!A lot of times you’ll get lucky and these men won’t have a separate sugaring email address and/or will give you their work email on a silver platter too. 

For my US POTs I haven’t yet paid for a membership, but I do use Spokeo to cross reference info I’ve found. It brings up a shit ton of stuff even for free so it’s well worth it. Again, I’ve been lucky with easily finding out a lot about my US Pots, but If I couldn’t find anything out about a guy I would pay for it. It’s a shame it doesn’t cater to Canadians as well. 

* I did have a website that I can’t remember/find the URL to (I’ll search & add it) that did a free criminal record check if you ran the name of the person and the year they were born in the search engine. 

Sorry that this is a novel, there’s nothing better than that jackpot feeling when you find things out. To be honest this is just what I do & I’m always looking to up my game so if any other SBs Canadian or not have anything to add feel free to chime in!

"Is there any chance I could get a blowjob?" Hell no. Be gone!

You don't gain anything from stressing. Remember that. Keep your mind off things that don't help you. Overthinking causes unhappiness.

- Unknown

First impressions are everything. If a POT thinks that he can pay you less because you look like you’re desperate or your “comfortable life” is lower rate, he will. If you’re like me, you ARE desperate, but we all want the maximum amount of mulah possible from our SDs. We DESERVE a comfortable...

When and how did you start being a SB?

I started searching for an SD when I was 20.

"Pay some bills and THEN you can speak your mind about what the fuck I do"