Elleofthestars-blog - XOXO

So I've been getting nothing but cheap salt . I won't stand for 600$ a month that's bullshit . I'm in a very busy city with a lot of well to do men but all sifiting through the salt is crazy . I'm on SA should I be open to other races ?

Yeah I wouldn’t stand for $600 a month either lol wtf that’s a pair of shoes.But I feel like if you’re in a large city perhaps you aren’t going to the right places or going about things differently.

As far as sites I’ve had luck with SA, SD is also great. But in a major city I recommend free styling. I’d look up nicer restaurants or even bars and dress up and head over to happy hour around 4 or 5. This is the time most business men get off of work and go for a drink or two.Just don’t go as a group of girls because men tend to not approach you if you are with other ppl.

These are just somethings that work for me.

You’re all beautiful and don’t let an ugly man make you feel anything less than that because you’re not giving him what he wants. They’ll try to make you feel like you’re not worth what you’re asking and that’s because THEY’RE not worth it.

Keep your head high, standards high and know your worth.

Much love xoxo

An email from some guy on Ashley Madison hahaha I was going to send back a polite hell no or something but I decided to have some fun. Inspired by a lot of you ladies in the bowl, I’m Trollin’ on the daily.

"Jiggaboo."

Bitch you gon call me ugly when you're fuckin BLACK? Lmaoooooo shit son you ugly by default the baby Jesus gave you some bad cards in your hand in the game of life like shit I can be pretty if I don't make faces but you'll always be a dirty jiggaboo. Go find some bleach and lemme know when you fix that nasty complexion of yours. Y'all look like a pile of dog shit.

me:

you:

lets not play this “game of life”.

I win you lose

Date these SDs

I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.

If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.

I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.

That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.

Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang. 

Once I turn 23 I'm just going to stay 23 for a few years. Then 24... Few years... 25... You see where this is going.