desisterfem
21+ year old human female ex-trans
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So I sometimes watch Dropout TV with my partner. IDRC about it, but I do like comedy sometimes, and 90% of the time it's fine? Just fine? But -
Apparently, despite having trans people on the network, that's "not enough" for TRAs, and they "need more." Like I can name several trans and nonbinary performers off the top of my head. The people making these skits and shows are allies. And yet that's not enough for TRAs, who get upset there are more "transmascs" than TIMs on the shows.
Like, give a TRA a basket of apples and they'll ask for the whole orchard.
Wow, threatening to abuse women because they don't agree with you. Where have I seen that before?
We need to normalize laying belt to terfs. I think their entire ideology comes from lacking in parental discipline. I get it, your dad didn't beat you enough and that's ok. I bet you thought that would be something sexual in this post but no, I just think you deserve to be hit until you learn how to be a normal person.
The terfbreaking tag is the perfect example of why TIMs are dangerous in women's spaces. It's just male fantasies about raping and sexually degrading women they disagree with. And that's what men do. They see a woman they don't like? They immediately come up with some kind of sexual debasement in their minds because to them that's enough to reduce and dismiss her. They use their sexuality as a weapon against women. And that's what TIMs do on here and call it progressive.
Ok rapist
That's it. Next TERF that fearmongers about "testosterone poising" or "porn sickness" is getting kidnaped and locked in my basement where I inject her with bodybuilder levels of testosterone twice a week and force her to watch violent porn until it's brain is completely broken. Of course TERFs don't get to transition into real trans men, they just get broken down into insatiable sex toys tortured by desire as their precious "female" body masculinizes itself into the perfect sex toy to be abused by me and all my other trans friends.
How are trans people supposedly 1% or less of the population, and yet "everyone" knows someone who's trans at the same time?
If you want to know why we live in a rape culture, it's because men believe that rape is just sex a woman wasn't crazy about.
Also, it's literally just a book. People still read Lovecraft, and he was a horrible racist. People read Neil Gaiman and watch the shows based on his books - and he's a literal rapist! If people can read and watch those, people can read and watch Harry Potter.
Y'all focus so much on her "funding anti-trans movements" and not on how much she works to battle misogyny.
like honestly cis people will jump through such insane hoops to justify liking hp it's absurd. today a (cis) woman told me "you wouldn't blame a person with an abusive parent for staying with the parent"...? i presume jkr is the "abusive parent" in this metaphor which is insane btw. you are not forced to rely on jowling rowling to survive. you do not need shitty wizard books injected into your veins or you will die. are you seriously so attached to a childrens' book series? do you care so little about trans lives? about the trans people in YOUR life? the gall. it feels like every month or so a (much more articulate than me) trans person (usually a trans woman; trans women are the primary target of jkr's transphobia) makes a post like this & nobody ever listens. how much do we have to say it? jkr takes any & all engagement with her work as an endorsement of her beliefs & actions. she has said this. she uses the money she makes & the attention she gets to fund real anti-trans action that has happened & will continue to happen. i'm not going to pretend like dropping her like a hot potato will fix everything, but god it will at least make her less relevant. it will keep her out of the news more. the trans people (& especially trans women) in your life will be able to feel like they can breathe around you if you just put the shitty wizard books down. the most disheartening part of all of this for me is it is such a small sacrifice to make & so many "allies" cannot even bring themselves to do that.
drop the damn books
Playing God is only bad when men do it btw. When women do it, it's reclaiming what's yours
posting a tiktok vaguely criticizing the prostitution and porn industries knowing im about to deal with the dumbest people alive
I think consenting to sex you don’t actually wanna have is a real form of self harm but society will never recognize that bc if we do like a very large percentage of American housewives would see the inherent violence that undertones all heterosexual marriage
this might be a hot take but i think that most women do have some radfem beliefs but choose not to share them out of fear of harassment or don’t recognize them as radical beliefs because of how radical feminism has been demonized.
As a woman, you're always too young or too old for things, because the perfect age is when you're a man.
Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes
no the female character who is a masculine woman is not secretly a transgender man and yes you saying that she is is misogynistic <3
this may or may not be a popular thought in the radical feminism community but i do think viewing oneself as asexual is a very valid sexual orientation, i just don't think it alone means you can belong in the lgb community.
i'm not talking about having a low sex drive or anything like that - i'm talking literally being incapable of sexual attraction.
i’m so done with feminist slogans being appropriated by everyone who isn’t too lazy.
“my body my choice” is about abortion. women are being forced to give birth to their rapists babies, underage girls are dying because they have no access to abortions. but yeah they cut off a useless piece of skin from your smelly dick so that’s basically the same thing.
hello, new radfem sideblog here because i can't share my opinions on my main.