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Antis being totally-normal-people™️ as always 🚬

(Btw, the second and last screenshot was addressed to a literal 13 years old.)

Wow wtf

I can't stand the way antis and antiship-allied people purposely misuse such terms to make themselves sound smarter and "righter", their selfish will to outsmart proshippers with no proper knowledge always leads to an actually harmful misinfo. They use big and serious words wrong to cause strong emotions among those who see their content and to find allies this way, because if they didn't misinterpretate terms to their liking and to their advantage, very little to no people would actually believe in anti rhetoric. Antis misuse terms because their argumentation cannot exist without it, and all their beliefs are built on it from the very core

Antis will purposely call explicit underage fics "*fictional* CSAM/CSEM/CP" to make people believe those ficwriters and enjoyers are actual pedophiles and predators to justify their bullying and harassment

Antis will purposely call any problematic ship dynamic "illegal" to make people believe this stuff is morally wrong to the point you actually can get jailed for it, like for fraud or murder, to make their rhetoric sound morally superior

Antis will purposely call any open proshipper "a sick pedo" and send them rape, assault, doxx and death threats to suppress those who don't agree with their ideas or who condemn their behavior and to turn proshippers into outcasts with no right to speak about shipcourse

And this is NEVER okay

And remember: it's okay to dislike or hate certain ships and dynamics, it's okay to be uncomfortable with them, it's okay to not engage with such stuff and with people who like it, it's okay to block and filter your content and feed

It is never okay, however, to shame, bully, harass and threaten people who engage with stuff you personally don't like

If you are in any online spaces that discuss the morality of fiction or its censorship, please keep the following in mind:

CSAM refers to Child Sexual Abuse Material. This is a term that was created for use by US federal law enforcement. As such, it is important to remember that this is a term used specifically to describe illegal sexual content that is produced involving real children. the term CSAM was specifically constructed to highlight the trauma these victims experience because of this abuse, and therefore their humanity.

if you come across CSAM online, you should immediately report it to a tip line. Some websites that host their servers in the US are subject to US federal law even if the person who posted it does not currently reside in the US, so keep that in mind when reporting. again, this is involving CSAM - it is illegal sexual content involving real children.

CSEM refers to Child Sexual Exploitation Material. This is material that involves a real child in a sexualized situation, but either 1- the material itself is not illegal to possess, or 2- the material is not sexualized, but is included in a series or other content that does contain CSAM. Think along the lines or a parent with a few too many photos of their child in the bath. These images are not explicitly sexual, and are not illegal in and of themselves, but they can be used exploitatively.

If you come across CSEM online, it's still a good idea to send in a tip as well as alerting the website it was posted on. Even if the content itself isn't technically illegal, some websites do have strict rules regarding nudity and the sexualization of minors, which can help stop the spread of such materials and reduce the impact on the affected child.

CSAM and CSEM are words used to describe the assault, abuse, sexualization, and exploitation of real children. CSAM, specifically, is used as a way to identify and remove these materials.

CSAM and CSEM do not apply to fiction. They don't apply to any fictionalized or simulated child abuse or sexualized children. They only refer to real children.

Do not send in tips about fictionalized child abuse or sexualized children to tip lines meant to be used for CSAM.

Do not use the words CSAM and CSEM when discussing fictionalized child abuse or sexualized children. In a worst case scenario, it leads to people misusing tip lines due to a conflation of CSAM with fictionalized depictions.

In a more likely scenario, using CSAM to refer to fiction minimizes what CSAM was created to do - which was highlight the trauma experienced by survivors, and therefore draw attention to their humanity. By continuing to use these terms in situations that do not involve real people, it reduces that impact.

Generic openly proship & fujoshi experience

Thing I notice

Perhaps it will be a bitter pill to swallow for most people but something needs to be said:

"aging up minor characters for nsfw content/ships is wrong" I agree, keeping them at the age of 15 and writing as many underage fics about them as possible is the only right way to go

Someone asked me to fill the rosabara version as well so here we go

The very last ray of sunshine before Great fandom purge™, 2020

🩷 OPTION 1: people can openly ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone, no matter of shipped ones age, relativeness, relationships or consent

🩷 OPTION 2: people can openly ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone with no consent asked, as long as shipped ones are not underaged, relatives or in abusive relationships

🩷 OPTION 3: people can ship whoever they want to and write RPF about anyone, no matter of shipped ones age, relativeness, relationships or consent, as long as this ship has little to no publicity and content is only posted privately

🩷 OPTION 4: people can ship and write RPF only with those who have consented to being shipped before

🩷 OPTION 5: people shouldn't ship real people and write RPF

I personally have really mixed thoughts about this so... Yeah I wanted to ask what do you think

I'd also like to know what exactly you think either in the comments or reblogs if you're okay with sharing this

Finally finished this little template meow

Maybe I'll do Rosaria x Barbara next but I'm not sure

Aye Ame wth

-This was said for like 1000 times and I'll say it for the 1001th time again-

imagine using profic site co-founded by wincest shipper & writer and then go nuts over its own target audience for using it to the point you start death threatening and suibaiting people

When you're in 90% of dni lists so you pull this move:

What are ships then according to tiktok antis I wonder

I saw people drawing proship & antiship humanizations so here are my interpretations

How can so many people complain about missing pre 2020 fandoms while furiously hating on those who used to run them

Mha "cringe" cosplayers, omegaverse ficwriters and fans, ao3/wattpad chronic users, artists who made those "derp humor" templates, fanon artists/enjoyers, comshippers, fujoshis with everlasting love to teacher x student stuff, hetalia/ch/cb fans etc etc, fandoms would be NOTHING without them

Our culture is not a trend for those who shame and harass everyone

Life severely nerfed my art skills so I couldn't draw the most scrumptious fischlisa pieces ever, this is all I can do now

Is it just me or do you also not understand where some of proship combos came from like... 🎱🎀 and 🪼🫧 are really cute but how the hell did they turn into proship ones

It's not a big deal I just feel like emojiwar is kinda dumb from both sides — why do antis act rabid seeing cute emojis together and then say the most diabolical shit over them and why do some proshippers try to "fight back" with new niche combos

"I love old man yaoi" "I love toxic yaoi/yuri"

That's why the heaviest dynamic you find so toxicyaoic is generic slight enemies to lovers? That's why you hate on actual fujoshis and himejoshis? That's why you hate on killing stalking, bj Alex, jinx, I adore you teacher, lilith and citrus fans? That's why you harass those who participate in these fandoms and create something inspired by it? That's why you police other people's interests and hobbies 24/7?

Pathetic poser.

Randomly remembered middle school times when I used to love frans and pinecest and salarry, be the sans fangirl™, watch horror/creepy/weird games playthrough on yt religiously, read abusive yaoi like killing stalking and joke about it, draw things I loved badly, watch really questionable anime and I couldn't be happier and freer

Oh to be a middle school freak again with no harassment

As we say in russian:

Если вокруг тебя везде воняет говном, значит ты обосрался

(if it smells like crap everywhere then it's you who shat yourself)

I HATE tiktok and the Internet in general rn for the obsession with "oh this person's smellyyy" "Brother it STINKS over here" "BOO 💧🧼🧽🚿" and stuff like that. I wish I could put into words how demeaning and patronising that whole idea is and people implying anyone they don't like doesn't wash.

For one there's something grating about being insulted in a manner like we're in nursery again. But also WHY is that the go to insult. Why do you associate these things? Especially to those you deem "chronically online". Like I don't want to sound pathetic but it feels so nasty to me.

is it extreme to say this feels tied to ableism? And classism too?

My god YES

For me it's not "fiction affects reality" or "fiction doesn't affect reality", but "fiction CAN affect reality"

And I personally think the media itself may affect it in certain cases, but what matters not less is the creator's intentions behind creations, target audience and existence or absence of a message for viewers in the media. It's not about the media itself, it's about people's perceptions and actions, all intertwined. People are the main problem in terms of awful actions in the first place, not fiction

the statement “fiction doesn’t affect reality” is wrong yes, but I feel there is some legitimacy to it.

it’s much less “fiction doesn’t affect reality” and more “fiction can affect reality but it should not hold so much power over it that something simply existing in a fictional work will drastically affect the way people interact with reality and other people.”

I find it interesting that antis will immediately assume you touch kids irl when they see you liking fucked up things in ships or fics like big age gap

I think it shows how they collectively see ships as something to project themselves into ONLY and therefore they gladly call anyone who sees ships' appeal differently big words like "pedo" & "groomer"

Just because their only ships understanding is "me and who" and no other understandings have crossed their minds yet

Antis in proship spaces are like men in feminist spaces: they only come here to show their stupidity once again, disgrace themselves and prove your point for the 12389th time

For me it's almost ALWAYS noncon/rape and I want to know how many people feel similar

Sexual abuse topics in any way make me super uncomfortable/sometimes triggered and I can't take it normally, I'm too sensitive for this😭 I can't take it as something interesting or entertaining in terms of ships (personally), even though I can see it being portrayed in certain media (like killing stalking) really interestingly; I may like it when it's portrayed for the sake of thriller media and/or for bold rape representation, but not for the sake of fanservice or something...

And it's pretty funny because in proship spaces it looks like EVERYONE ships something nonconish lmao 😭 and it's mostly true, many comshippers are into it, so I'm like "well, I'm alone in this sea I suppose"