Find your tribe in a Sea of Creativity
this is a self indulgent post but to nonsharers that can’t help but lurk on a double’s blog: don’t. it will bring you more pain and though i understand the feeling, it isn’t isn’t worth it. you don’t deserve that.
what i personally do if i see a double, i block them immediately and then:
listen to music (bonus points if it’s your selfship playlist)
watch youtube
write / draw
hoard their pictures on pinterest boards
read x reader fics (if there’s any)
create a whole new selfship au
shitpost lol
go eat, drink water, cook, clean
talk to friends/family members about anything
consume their source like a madman (/lh)
remind myself that my f/o(s) wouldn’t dare because they wouldn’t lol
ramble about my selfship on the dash (i kinda spam whoops)
imagine myself doing tiktok pranks with them
edit my self insert’s backstories and headcanons
literally, anything else but stalk their blog. distract yourself with things that you like and enjoy. your feelings are completely valid yes but we have to pull ourselves out of that instead of delving deeper :,) besides, your f/o(s) need your attention more than anything, do not leave them hanging (/lh)