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Truth!

Hopefully Hapless Introverted Romantic

An introvert attracted to someone easily slips into obsessively imagining as the desire to connect with someone drowns within the inability to socialize, to get through the insignificant chatter with a stranger that allows the introvert’s preferred social medium to come into being. As each of those desired moments with the desired slips by, as the fear of being alone with that delicious stranger keeps those very moments unattainable the introvert channels that deep desire into obsession. A continuous imagining of what could be if she could just be more social, could deliver the charming small talk to win the interest of the other person, drives her into her imagination, building a relationship within that universe that she has total control, where her introversion is the charm, where the one she desires brings down that barrier not so she can take on extroverted traits but so her genuine thoughtfulness, insights and vibrancy naturally flow.  How she desires that this person has the patience to understand her introversion, to look into her eyes and see her life and is willing to wait for this seemingly quiet stranger to find the significant words to make a conversation charming because the words are worthwhile.

If you are an introvert, find some way to connect, find some way to interact with those you deeply desire to know so you don’t spend your time writing down the obsessive imaginations of relationships you hoped you had because you could control the social awkwardness, because even know, this introvert is writing stories of love affairs she wished that she could have and is still getting stuck in those social situations that introverts dread. And I’m not even writing great ways for the introvert to conquer those situations because I’m not sure how to conquer them; it’s still a stumbly, awkward mess of staccato words and looks and gesticulations that sometimes murder a relationship between two otherwise largely compatible and loving people.