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Latest Posts by prxshipluv - Page 3

1 year ago

ive truly always wondered how antis could say that proshipping is bad and it reflects your morals yet agree that if, for say, youre a lesbian yet you like a fictional character that is a male, then that doesnt inherently reflect your sexuality, does that make sense? its the same concept 😭

that being said proshippers are completely and 100% valid and all deserve so much love and care, i care for you all and wish nothing but the best for you ♡ stay safe, take care of yourselves, eat. drink water, be happy, be free. mwahmwah ♡


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1 year ago

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Some of my f/os are on my straw.page!

Hello sweets! My name is whatever you'd like it to be. Demigirl {they/them, fem presenting}, ficto-rom/sexual. Over 18! I'm a proshipper, darkshipper, and selfshipper. my blog is here to support these same folk of any race; any gender; any sexuality; etc. I'm an inclusionist of any mental disorders; chronic illnesses; disabilities; etc.

On my blog, I will post proship, selfship, etc, positivity. You may feel free to send me any requests that you're wanting as long as it still has a relationship to these things!

Reminder: proship/darkshipping does not and SHOULD NOT correlate to your views in real life.

DNI: DNIs don't do much but I'll say I will block if you're pro-contact, radical anything (to the point of being violent/aggressive/harassing), exclusionary towards race; gender; sexuality; etc. also if you consider yourself an 'irl loli/shota'. Probably more that I can't think of but basically I will just silently block you if I know I wouldn't get along with you!

DMs are always open ♡

Darkship blog (MDNI) -> @bl4ck0utg1rl

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3 years ago

I need a hug

I scared of losing my anti friends if they discover who am I in reality

I like reading your posts when i think about that and feel down, they make me feel less guilty of the way i am

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Hello darling, i cant offer you a hug in real life, but i will definitely give you a virtual hug <3

*Cue the virtual hug*

I Need A Hug

Im so sorry youre scared of losing your friends honey, you should never have to be scared of that over your views on fiction. I hope youll find peace soon sweetie, and i hope you have/get friends who share the same views as you as well, you deserve to be comfortable and happy and have a peace of mind <3 Im so glad my posts can help you atleast a little, that really means alot to me, and my dms are open if you ever need to vent or something, please take care of yourself sweetie, you dont deserve all that stress and anxiety and fear, you are important and you matter, you are valid and loved, i care about you alot ♡


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3 years ago

🦋[Hey loves <3 How are you all doing? I apologize for not posting for a few days, i get busy frequently :( But, just know i still love n care for all of you, so here i am back with another positivity post <3]🦋

🦋[This one is quite specific, but this one is for the people who identify w/ xenogenders/neurogenders, cause, i do as well, and ppl who used these are always so shitted on, sooo]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with xenogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with neurogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who use neo/xenopronouns are valid and very cool, and yes, your pronouns should absolutely be respected no matter how 'dumb' someone may think it is. It isnt dumb, btw <3]🦋

🦋[Dont let neurotypicals tell you how you can and cant identify as (i see it is mostly neurotypicals who do that) and that is honestly ableist how they shit on people who use these without even understanding how much it helps ND's. You all are precious and very much valued, especially here, you are valid and loved and cared for no matter how you identify. ♡]🦋

🦋[Id really appreciate it if anyone who uses these comments or sends in an ask telling me what xeno/neurogenders or pronouns they use, only if youre comfortable <3 Id like to make this a more comfortable safe space where people can express themselves freely so <3]🦋


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3 years ago

Hello, I just want to say thank you for existing, i need positivity in my life as a closeted proshipper who's surrounded by anti friends (´°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥ω°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥`) your account is so cute and helpful

Awww thank you so much lovely!!! That really means alot, and ive been having a generally rough day today as it is so i really appreciate that <3 Thank YOU for existing too darling, you are a treasure and i hope youll find peace and a safe space soon, im so sorry most of your friends are antis, but dont ever be scared to message me or something if you need a proshipper friend to talk to <3 Take care hun, youre a wonderful being ♡♡♡


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3 years ago

I always had a hard time with self shipping because people always made it weird that I was into it to the point I couldn’t, but other people did it no problem, and even now it’s hard to do without cringing like 😭

Awww sweetie! Im so so sorry, selfshipping is absolutely NOT weird, whatsoever! It is mainly used a coping mechanism too, and i dont stand for people making fun of coping mechanisms, or hypocrisy! If theyre allowed to do it then you are too, no buts about it! Have fun with selfshipping love, its not cringy at all no matter how you selfship, its a wonderful thing to explore and have fun with, be you and be happy, do what makes you comfortable, and just know i fully support you on it! Feel free to gush to me about your selfships whenever you like! ♡♡♡


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3 years ago

what about proship positivity for the vocaloid fandom? : o it has a lot of antis ;;

Ofc love! Its posted <3

3 years ago

🦋[Hello hello lovely vocaloid proshippers!! May i remind you that it is absolutely wonderful and valid that you ship problematic things with the vocaloids? It is SO valid! Do you ship underraged vocaloids with adult vocaloids? Cool! You do you! <3 Do you interpret certain vocaloid ships as abusive/insestual/toxic/etc? Wow, thats interesting! The ship was great before, but you added ☆spice☆, and honestly, thats super valid n cool ♡ It doesnt matter what you ship, or how you ship them, just know you are super valid, and the antis shouldnt have any impact on what you like <3 Be happy and ship whatever the hell you want!]🦋


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3 years ago

🦋[Hey lovelies! Do any of you happen to want positivity for a certain fandom? Or possibly certain types of ships or smth? Selfship and regular shipping included ofc, but i know sometimes people have alot of bad experiences with specific fandoms and i want to make up for atleast a small bit of it <3 So if youd like some positivity/reassurance for anything specific lmk! And honestly if you need it outside of proship-selfship related things then im fine with that too, im here for everyone and care deeply about all of you <3 Take care huns! My inbox is always open :)]🦋


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3 years ago

🦋[Heya lovely, how are you? I hope youre doing good <3 This is just a reminder to take care of yourself, and to try your hardest to ignore what anti's have to say, theyve done some really fucked up and cruel stuff, stuff ive personally never seen proshippers do or even threaten to do. So just know youre so amazing, and truely a treasure to the community and to the world in general, the proshippers i interact with are all very kind and accepting, and i hope everyone else's experiences are the same <3 Make sure to eat, drink some water, and just do whatever you can today, even if its barely anything, even if its only to get out of bed to use the bathroom- just know im super proud of you either way. As always, the inbox is open :) Take care lovelies ♡]🦋


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3 years ago

In response to your last post about selfshipping! I absolutely do that with my self-ships too! I make my s/i a minor like 99% of the time, and on the occasion that I feel like it, I'll make my romantic f/o a familial f/o as well, or vice-verse, usually as a form of coping with my trauma as well! Selfshipping that way is 100% valid, cause you aren't really hurting anybody! There really is no correct or incorrect way to self-ship, and you shouldn't let anybody try to tell you otherwise! - @touchstarved-syrup-selfships

Thank you so much darling, really, im so glad im not alone on doing that <3 Im so sorry for your trauma though, and if you ever need to talk, then im here ♡♡ Your f/os love you v much and i really hope youre taking care of yourself! <3


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3 years ago

hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D

Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3


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3 years ago

🦋[ TW: Inc*st/gr**ming mention: Does any other proship-selfshipper make their selfships incestual or age gapped cause of trauma?? I do that, where ill make my self insert the child of an f/o or the sibling to one and ship them, or my self insert will be way younger than the f/o, cause my family treated me really sexually and i got groomed a few times. I used to be terrified of telling my closest friend abt that but now i just dont care, and they dont either, but im kinda curious if anyone else following me does that?? Like i genuinely get so repulsed by the idea of it happening irl and i hated it sm when it happened to me irl but thinking about it fictionally helps me cope w/ it?? And honestly at this point i kinda need some reasurance for it, since i cant tell if i should feel bad for it lmao. Ily guys tho, sorry! Take care, lovelies <3 ]🦋


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3 years ago

Is the anon from the pfp post ur friend or smth? Bc I would really feel offended if some random person told me to change my pfp (no hate for that anon of course, I just find it odd)

Hahah, no, i dont know them personally, but im not offended! I didnt take that the wrong way or anything, i actually appreciate them being honest w/ me!! But ty for the ask anyways lovely, take care!

3 years ago

Are you okay with doing shoutouts? If you are.. I’m calling all lovely proshippers to my blog to rq moodboards/stimboards rn :D also you have such cute and amazing vibes mygodd

Ofcourse im okay with doing shoutouts!! Your blog looks amazing btw, i love the boards youve done so far! Youre v talented <3 Id really recommend if u guys who follow me go request smth from her :) And awe tysm!! Thats so sweet, you also give really amazing vibes, take care darling!! <3


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3 years ago

🦋[Hello hello lovely proshippers and selfshippers! Has anyone told you how amazing you are today? Well now you have, youre amazing! You are a wonderful person and i hope you are getting all the love and support you deserve ♡ Please take care of yourself, youre doing amazing, and you are so valid! Remember my inbox is always open, id love to hear you all gush about your ships and f/os! Ily all <<33]🦋


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3 years ago

Hello may I gush to you? I'm going to do it anyway. This is something I wanna talk about and a confusing situation that I feel really bad about so-

So uh. My main ship, in any fandom, is sebaciel (Sebastian/Ciel from Kuroshitsuji/Black Butler). This is already A Thing because Ciel is like fourteen and Sebastian's a hundreds-of-years old demon, but I love them sm so. They're my favorites and I would do anything for it to be canon tbh. Now the problem with this is: I kin Sebastian.

I self-ship with Ciel because sebaciel was official in my canon, but I feel really bad about because Ciel's a child and ugh. Purity culture and christian upbringing + how most people would view me is not a good combo :/. But I love him a lot and god I would do anything for him. I feel bad about it though and I hate that I do because I know I have no reason to especially considering I'm closer than even the age Sebastian gives under human disguise.

Anyway I'm gonna gush about Ciel because I love my young master so. Like he's just, so small and precious, pretty little boy, I just want to scoop him up and take care of him. I would do literally anything for him I swear, I love him so much. He's so cute and pretty and genuinely smart and clever, he loves mystery(idk if that's actually the right word, there's a better one but I'm dumb-) books and would keep notes to try and figure out who the culprit was on his own. He loved rabbits and soft things and sweet things, especially chocolate, and I would give a lot to just watch his face light up when he eats it. He used to have nightmares, and I remember how long it took for him to let me comfort him after them. I love him so much.

Awww hey hey! Im so so sorry you feel so bad about selfshipping with Ciel, i do completely understand though! I too had a christian upbringing, though personally im now athiest, i still have the aftermath of the religious trauma my family gave to me, and it seeps into my proship views every once in a while, so do know you arent alone on that <3 You are completely valid for selfshipping with Ciel and are completely valid for shipping Sebaciel! Im absolutely sure you are perfect for Ciel though, your view on this does not affect who you are in real life love, dont let it affect you so deeply <3 But, still, what youve said so far, gushing about Ciel, is so cute!! I ship you two v much, please take care of yourself though darling, im sorry i dont have much else to say about this rn, and im sorry im replying to it so long after youve sent it, but feel free to come back and gush or talk more anytime <333


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3 years ago

u should change ur pfp! maybe like to kaori from your lie in april? idk i feel like it would be rlly cute

Ooh, ill definitely consider it! I have it as Sayori rn since shes a high kin of mine but ill def consider it, ty!

3 years ago

Natsuki is profic and so are the others probably ❤️

Absolutely! Canon! No one can convince us otherwise <3


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3 years ago
Cat Pic For A Very Nice Person

cat pic for a very nice person <3

AWWW??? THEYRE SO CUTE, THE BIG EYES :(((


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3 years ago

I've been hitting up like every request blog I can find that's proship about him I swear but like 😭.Maruki from Persons 5 The Royal has me by the heart, man!! It's not my fault he's a complete puppy dog of an antagonist!! Needs to be wrapped in a blanket I fucking swear.

MARUKI!!! He absolutely does need to be wrapped in a blanket, i agree! This is so cute tho, i ship you two v much :))) Feel free to gush abt him whenever!!


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3 years ago

🦋[Back again and here to tell you youre amazing and that your fictional ships dont determine who you are as a human being <3]🦋

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🦋[Incest shippers are super cool, you arent harming anyone by shipping this stuff, its okay to like this in fiction and be repulsed by it irl <3]🦋

🦋[Age gap/minor+adult shippers are amazing and deserve the world, you arent hurting any minors by shipping this, we know its fiction and you are absolutely NOT a predator for this <3]🦋

🦋[Abusive/toxic relationship shippers are awesome and deserve to be happy, you arent condoning nor hurting vicitms by shipping this, its perfectly okay <3]🦋

🦋[Yandere shippers are so fuckin pog, this is abit specific but i have a soft spot for yanderes, and just know you arent harmful or being harmful to anyone for shipping yandere things <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn wholesome ships problematic are so creative and fun, you arent a bad nor toxic/abusive person for doing this, youre wonderful <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn problematic ships into wholesome ones are super lovely, i never understood the issue with this anyways but just know youre such a sweetheart if you do this <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age up characters for any reason are amazing, youre not weird for this at all <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age down characters for any reason are valid, youre not yucky or gross or disgusting for this, its fiction and your own mind/imagination, have fun with it <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with yanderes are pog, cause same <3 its ok to love them in fiction, you arent weird or creepy or anything, youre valid <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who proship with villains and/or non-human characters are valid and super cool?? Like wow, thats just so awesome???? Your f/o(s) are super rad, and they love you <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with abusive/toxic and/or familial characters are valid and cool, i know you wouldnt do such things to your irl partner and ik you wouldnt do such things to your family, dont worry, its okay <3 fiction doesnt determine how you are morally <3]🦋

🦋[Adult selfship-proshippers who self ship with a minor character are completely valid, theyre fictional and im positive you wouldnt like minors irl, you arent a predator <3]🦋

🦋[Minor selfship-proshippers who self ship with an adult character are valid, you arent dumb/oblivious/unknowing, and im positive youd know better irl, theyre fictional, and ive been in your shoes before, its ok <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who age up their minor f/os and/or age down their adult f/os are super valid and its perfectly okay to do so, its your f/o, they love you no matter what, have fun and enjoy them <3]🦋

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🦋[We as proshippers know this stuff isnt okay irl, and absolutely dont condone it whatsoever. Whether it be for comfort, to cope, or for fun, just know its valid and that youre not a terrible person at all for shipping it. Ily, drink some water, eat something, get some sleep, and just take care of yourself. Youre worth it <3]🦋


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3 years ago

Reblog this if you’re okay with fellow self-shippers gushing about their F/Os in your ask box!


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3 years ago

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🦋[Hey there you beautiful/handsome/pretty human being, have you eaten? Have you drank some water? Well youd better do that okay, i want you to stay healthy <3 And how are you doing? Do you need to vent or talk? Feel free to vent to me luv, im all ears <3

Just a reminder youre valid, youre amazing, and deserve all the love you can get. And if youre having a hard time, i hear you, you matter, youre loved and cared for, and i truely hope youll get better. Once again, im here for you, take a break, give yourself a breather, and be gentle with yourself, you deserve to be happy]🦋

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3 years ago

hey maybe cross-tagging posts about how much characters hate a specific group into that group’s tags is inherently malicious and youre an asshole if you do it!

no “we just do.” is not a valid reason. you dont know how important a certain character could be to someone and you are an absolute dick if you do this. 


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3 years ago

🦋 Hey hey proshippers! Youre all super wonderful and amazing and i support every one of you <3

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LGBTQ+ proshippers are valid <3

Minor proshippers are valid <3

Adult proshippers are valid <3

Abuse/csa victim proshippers are valid <3

System proshippers are valid <3

Self ship proshippers are valid <3

Proshippers who ship these things as a way to cope are valid <3

Proshippers who do it for fun are valid <3

Every proshipper is 💕✨valid✨💕

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Youre all so valid and ily all so much, remember to drink some water, eat something- even if its only something small, rest, and just be you. 💕💕💕

Feel free to reblog or comment with anything else youd like to add :) 🦋


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3 years ago

I will

I will hug every proship🌸🏵️👑🌺


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3 years ago

Hey luvs, if anyone wants to rant to me about anything then my asks are always open <3 I hope youre all well, just know you deserve as much love as anyone else and are genuinely some of the nicest people ive met, take care :) ♡♡♡


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