I just know that the dudes who make those "girls get 500 compliments a day vs. guy gets one compliment once and cherishes it for the rest of his life" memes put zero effort into their appearance. Like what exactly do you expect people to say? Wow nice plain ill-fitting hoodie, goes great with your basic-ass blue jeans and nondescript haircut. Got some real cool Grey Man vibes going on, you could seamlessly blend into any crowd ever without being seen at all.
Like nobody has any obligation to look any certain way, but you can't expect to be praised for doing something you're not even trying to do. I dress like I got tarred and feathered in a Tim Burton film costume department discard scrap pile, and someone saying they like my style is a biweekly occurrence.
not trying to be mean (disclaimer, i'm nice, i swear) but if you're always saying you haven’t shifted, asking for help, getting told the simplest answer ("just know you’ve shifted, that’s literally it. confidence + assumption = success"), rejecting that, then saying you haven’t shifted again… and then doing it all over…....what are we doing here. what are we cooking. at some point, it’s not about shifting anymore, it’s about you fighting your own brain in a parking lot.
if you keep reaffirming that you haven’t shifted, your mind is just following that script
The most powerful affirmation you can use while shifting is I allow myself to shift, no matter how many doubts you have, you let go in that moment and just allow yourself.
ꉹㅤׅ⠀⁺ ⠀⠀miracle 𓈒 ˚ ❀ ۪
⠀⠀⠀ ໂ●⃘﮾᳜⡴ ⠀ ⠀ ୨ ✮ ୧ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ 🍵 ⠀ ⠀ ⠀☆ .˳˳ ͏𓉸ྀི
⠀⠀ ◟ ྀི ◟ ͜ ⠀⠀ ⠀ ⠀ @fairytopea ⠀ ⠀ ⠀𓈒 𓈒 ⠀ ̮͡ ུ. ⠀
⠀⠀⠀ 𓆩♡𓆪 ⠀ ⠀ *ೃ ✿ཆྀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ 🐢 ⠀ ⠀ ⠀⠀۫ ͡ ︶
ฤดูหนาวข้างหน้า / deite-se comigo diante da lareira, ficaremos a salvo das tempestades, lá em cima. ✿
tem um inverno chegando se for frio e úmido, ficaremos sempre aquecidos aqui, lado a lado [ .. ] ♥︎ الشتاء قدما
se você olhar nos meus olhos, poderá encontrar a verdade do meu coração, perceberá onde pode encontrar o paraíso.
se ─── você olhar nos meus olhos, poderá encontrar a lua e as estrelas, bem, admito que seria encantador ❀ حب
𝐯𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞 𖬺͟⠀ น่ารัก 𝗐𝗂𝗇𝗍𝖾𝗋 ♥︎
( 𝖼𝗁𝗈𝖼𝗈𝗅𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝗊𝗎𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾 ) 눈 ✿ 𝗍𝗁𝗏
𝗂𝗇 ─── 𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗈 𝟣𝟫𝟫𝟧 ♡หิมะ
𝖽'𝖺𝗎𝗍𝗈𝗆𝗇𝖾 바람❀ : 𝟥𝟢’𝟫𝟧 𝐕
Use your nice things.
Use that makeup you've been saving for a rainy day. Paint your nails whenever you want. Eat that decadent treat you've been saving. Wear that gorgeous outfit. Read that book you've been putting off. Play that video game you bought and haven't touched. Pull out your finest dishes for dinner.
Nice things are meant to be used just like regular ones, and your life will feel richer for indulging in them. They are treasure, and so are you.
꯳⃘꤫⃛͡ ♥︎ ⠀Forever Young⠀🫁 ྀུʕ̢̣̣̣̣̩̩̩̩·͡˔·ོɁ̡̣̣̣̣̩̩̩̩
🩹𓈒ིུ✧͟⎯⎯͟͟ ⬚̩̥͒ ᭄᭡
What is with the constant fetishisation of rape and SA on this app and in fan fiction?? I get people have their kinks n shit but rape??? Really???
Not only that but the amount of pedophilia and incest is insane😟
I try not to be judgemental but I don’t get why you would want to read about yourself or someone else being SA how does that not make you uncomfortable and normalising shit like that is so not okay. It is not romance. It is not dark romance. It’s abuse and it’s gross.
I get that people are into different things and that you can’t control what you like most of the time but the normalisation of this stuff is crazy and so damaging especially to minors and victims.
I get CNC like atleast there’s consent in that but straight up violent rape fiction is weird and scary.
Anyway thanks for reading my lil rant!! love you all, stay happy and safe MWAH 💋
Edit: I have a reblog answering a few questions 🫶
When tumblr refreshes itself and the fic I was reading fucking disappears forever 💔
I’ve been searching for a smau I was reading for three days 😔
stop waiting on the "right time" to shift, the right time is here and now. shift your reality NOW!
bruh literally getting into the void is relaxing and affirming. if you feel like you try try try & cant get into the void, take a break for a couple days, stop over consuming tumblr content and come back.
i struggled with the void for 3 years since 2021 and i used to boo hoo cry, but i had to realize i'm in control of my reality and nothing else controls it but myself. so... yeah i wish i could slap old me bc it aint dat serious.
why are you still here? how long have you been on loass tumblr? quite some time right? so you already know how to enter the void, but you’re still here, looking for more methods, doubting yourself. tell me, do you know you’re gonna enter the void tonight? do you REALLY? do you believe it’s a cold stone hard fact? even if you said yes, you most likely don’t. if you thought you were going to enter the void tonight you would be going about your life not thinking about the void because you know you’re going in and there’s nothing left to be said.
if you have been trying to enter the void state for months, or even YEARS, that is nobody’s fault but your own. how do you expect bloggers to respond when you say “i’ve been trying to enter the void for months but it’s not working”. how??? that’s not an actual problem. that is something you are choosing to do even if you don’t know.
persisting isn’t trying for the void for a few days and then coming back on tumblr to ask why you aren’t entering. persisting is waking up every day knowing you’re gonna get into the void. not assuming, not wondering if, KNOWING. KNOWING nothings gonna get in your way this time. KNOWING it’s happening and not spending your whole day thinking about it.
i don’t care how long it’s been since you’ve started trying for the void. literally just keep doing what you’re doing. and stay out of peoples asks being annoying. we want to help you, we really do. but it’s kind of hard when you’re keeping a temporary positive mindset instead of a permanent one. it’s going to happen but not because of a new method you found. it’s gonna happen because YOU persisted in the fact that your entering the void. i know half of the people who saw this post probably scrolled right past because they think a method will increase their chances of success. but if you’ve read all this, please take this into consideration. YOU are in charge of your life.
now get off tumblr dawg 😹
stop ignoring yourself. fix your posture, get a fresh haircut, drink water, take care of your skin, eat food that gives you energy, declutter your space, take time to rest, workout, do mindful meditation, fix your sleep schedule. when you feel/look good, you do good. invest in yourself, put the effort you deserve.
⠀🐌⠀⠀ 𓏸 ˖ ⿴݃♱ ⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ m̴͚͛͠insu is cⓞnf͟used
⠀⠀⠀ ⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀🌸🏞️⠀ ⠀⠀ ❚❘❙❘⎯⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀⠀⠀ ⠀꒰ ͟͡ 𖣁 ͟͡ ꒱
⋆ ˚ ۪ ⋆ ୨୧ with ribbon in knots
you in your dr — “I want to shift back.” *shifts back*
you here — “I need to do xyz, get into the void state and focus on my reality without any distractions.” *?*
the bisexual struggle of deciding whether your s/o should be male or female
i just remembered that i can script that all fruits are always in season and im so happy
I NEED TO KISS A GIRL AAAHHHHH
Me, a shifter, whenever my CR parents start acting up:
(make sure to unmute)
guys so I was using the Julia method for shifting, and I decided to do it sitting up (I’ve always done it laying down) and I swear to god that was the closest to shifting I’ve ever gotten and was such an out-of-body experience
the meditation was on YouTube, from the channel Alunir
hearing shifters talk freely about shifting to insanely scary drs is one of my favourite things about this community #breakingmysilence
guess who's shifting tonight? ME BITCH!!!! I'm gonna get with my s/o tonight just u wait
i shifted???? some people might say it is a mini shift but i don't use that term. because a mini shift is still a shift. no matter how long you spent in there. there is no such thing as a mini shift. you just shifted. don't down play it. now, i learned about shifting maybe last week? i really deep dived in but never tried anything cause i didn't feel the need to yet. but yesterday i decided to combine the julia method with the 'f*ck it' method (“f*ck it, whatever happens, happens” mindset and let go). on my first try, i shifted?? i got sleepy by daydreaming and jamming to songs in my head. then when i realised i might fall asleep i was gonna start counting... guess who fell asleep... me. but my body woke me up in the middle of the night for no reason and i started my method. i counted to 100 while saying identity affirmations in between. then i visualised my dr bedroom in first person and used my 5 senses. i fell asleep i think? but when i woke up, i actually felt and saw around me a bit. it was a bit blurry and i was only seeing one side (the roof, the sheets and what looked like the doors of my closet?) now my dr bedroom is very princess style. pink, gold, carvings in the walls. my bedroom is grey in my cr. but it was so real and i was seeing details i didn't even think about or put in my pinterest board. and i never had dreams like this before. i barely dream actually. anyways i felt the cold of my silk pillow in my dr and the sheets on my hands. then i got out. it was only for a few seconds. but girl i shifted! and i was confused when i woke up. because i still kinda felt the symptoms and my head was hurting. but i shifted. gonna shift again today!
let it come to you.
don't force it, let it come to you.
it's already yours, so don't force it and let it come to you.
it's going to happen, it's inevitable. and it's already yours. so don't force it. let it come to you.
used to tell myself people were crazy for going to dangerous dr's... why am i going to squid game?...