I'm Not An Advocate Of Findomme But At Least Her Priorities Align Perfectly With A Beta Loser's Own Personal

These are very natural feelings for beta losers. We don't deserve sexual gratification in any form from women and we are being selfish if we have any expectations at all that a woman will provide us with one of the above gratifications the OP shared. We are disappointments in the sexual world and not "curable". It is only natural for a beta male to work hard to back off of these thoughts and train his mind to be free of thoughts of being touched. Now certainly you can and should be free to imagine your wife/gf/crush touching OTHER men and fulfilling all of the desires of OTHER men in the most carnal of ways. Just never thoughts of her touching you. Your own (insert your favorite beta term for you penis here) should only be satisfied by your own hand or by an inanimate object that's guided by your own hand. These are important beta lessons to learn and embrace

Fraud

The rare times my penis would get pussy, a HJ or a FJ it would feel good, sure... but during and afterward I could never escape the feeling, the thought "I don't deserve this". After cumming I felt like a fraud. My penis shouldn't have came this way, it didn't deserve this, I'm being selfish expecting her touch. This is what real men get not me.

The only way that feels right for a beta like me to cum is with my hand. I'm nervous, but looking forward to a masturbation only 2023 for my little dick!

For some, the Tumblr apocalypse some years ago was a terrible thing. For beta losers, life didn't change one bit. The sort of allowable images remained very beta appropriate.... I think this image is exactly what losers are looking for. We understand that nakedness and seeing women's bodies are not for us. We don't need to see her face because our gaze should always be meek and cast downwards at her shoes. That's the only part of a woman's body that should matter to losers. Seeing her shoes, her feet and another man's cum you'd beg to lick up is all a loser needs. Perving out alone at home to these sorts of images is the only sex life you need or deserve. She clearly got hers earlier with a real man....now you can have yours ❤️

An enlightened beta loser is proud of feeling this way. The mere thought of pussy terrifies me now. That is so far out of my league and wheelhouse. Pussy is for real men. Not losers. I'm very proudly beta sex for life

It's okay to be a loser. Not everyone was born to be an alpha. What's most important is embracing who you are and being the very best loser you can be each and every day. Love yourself for what you are and waste no time on what you are not ♥️

Does your wife talk to other men?

Well this is an easy one... My wife has been dating another guy for around 3 years now so it's safe to say that yes, she's quite comfortable talking to other men ♥️

Being beta often means accepting roles and responsibilities that others would never even consider accepting. Licking and cleaning a woman's shoes is one of those roles. She should never have to even consider cleaning her own shoes and neither should her boyfriend. This is exclusively beta loser territory and you should not only eagerly accept your role and responsibility...but also put your fullest amount of effort into completing the job, no matter what she thinks of you. It IS a reward to lock a woman's shoes.

A true beta loser already has this one mastered and down to a fine art and is proud of his shortcomings. No need to take the course at all! Though in theory you should always be working on making yourself go even faster. It helps to solidify your place in life and provides excellent mental reinforcement of how disappointing you actually are to both men and women ♥️

I've always been a huge believer in using mantras on your journey to enlightenment and acceptance of who and what you are. This is an excellent starter list that you should be using regularly...While they'll likely sound a little strange at first, particularly saying them out loud, if you keep at it they'll become second nature and you'll find yourself just saying them in your head all day long without realizing...and at that point these statements won't be a source of pain or shame but rather a source of comfort and belonging. Make 2024 YOUR year of complete acceptance of who and what you are. Deep down you already know...now let's help you grow and become the absolute best loser you can be ❤️... We're all here for you losers...you're not alone. Acceptance of being a loser and at the bottom of the sexual food chain can be a wonderful life

Daily Affirmations for losers.

Say all these things to yourself out loud, especially when you’re hand-humping.

I am a loser.

I deserve to be humiliated for being a loser.

I will never satisfy a woman.

I am beta.

I have a small penis.

Women are disgusted by My small penis.

I will serve.

I belong on My knees.

I will never compare to Alpha Males or Alpha Females.

I love being humiliated.

Every woman knows I’m a loser.

I’m addicted to humiliation.

Repeat this over & over until you can memorize it perfectly.

There is much truth to this. As a beta loser who lives cuckolding from a reality based perspective rather than a fantasy based perspective, I can identify with these statements about the likely changes that will occur in your relationship over time. Maybe this isn't entirely true in some relationships but it sure has been to a large degree in my own. Particularly the part where he now calls the shots for both my wife and I. Whatever he wants, he gets. Period. Be careful what you wish for as they say.

This is for you, cuckold

There is so much that is misunderstood about becoming a cuckold. Many husbands and boyfriends have a fantasy about their women having sex with another man - one who is more endowed, more masculine, and more assertive. But there is much more to cuckolding when it crosses from fantasy to reality. 

Here is what you need to consider:

Sex between me and your wife is a very intimate act. If you think you can remove emotions from it, you’re deluding yourself. Your wife will have feelings for me, and I will have feelings for her.

You do not get to control the sex. That is between me and your wife or girlfriend. If we want to kiss (and we do), we will kiss; once you consent to me making love to your wife, it is out of your hands.

She will look at you and your relationship differently after she is with me. She will know and intimacy from another point of view, and she will forever compare you to me (sorry, friend, but you will likely come up short).

Your wife or girlfriend will want to continue to see me. You will be jealous. Are you going to deprive her? She will resent you.

Cuckolding is not only between me and your wife; it is also between me and you. I cannot speak for all in my situation, but I derive great pleasure from dominating you through your wife. I know you do too.

Still want me to have sex with your cute wife? Great. I look forward to a meaningful relationship with you both.

When you're a beta loser you become keenly aware that even this gurl gets more attention from men and women, and more sex in a month than you will in your entire lifetime. Be proud of this fact and learn to embrace your place at the very bottom of the sexual food chain. Love yourself and learn to serve all others. Your role in life is to support all OTHERS to have great sex and have great experiences while also understanding that these things are not for you. Not now. Not ever. Become comfortable being home alone having incredible loser hand sex over and over thinking about what an amazing time they're all having without you. Picture them in your mind touching one another, kissing one another, having hot passionate breathtaking sex...all while trying not to disappoint your hand. This is the natural beta loser way