I love the concept of gauging relationships/things through a metric of whether they bring you closer or further from yourself……. Literally just mentally pausing and broaching the question of “am I abandoning myself by perpetuating this relationship/situation” and allowing yourself only binary yes/no answers….. if it’s making you a better or worse person….. if it’s helping you grow in some way (whether it be maturity or happiness or whatever it is) or if it’s stunting you (you are literally just not being yourself)…….. re evaluating from there
i still hate y’all bitches who say oc x canon shit is cringe like bitch you have ANY idea how flattered i would be if someone made an oc for my fantasy world? how utterly PSYCHED my ass would be they loved a character so much they fleshed out one themselves just 2 be with one of mine? fuck y’all haters
Poor Dazai...
I put on makeup today for the first time since about 3 weeks, went on a long walk to the bookstore, made about 7 k steps, got a new book, did small grocieries and had some homemade pumpkin soup (that I froze about a month ago and today I actually ate it? shocker) and it was still sunny outside around 5 pm
merry xmas and happy holidays ‼️ 🎄
mornings after
DOA doodles i made in class (sorry for the low quality lol) sometimes i like to draw in this simpler style :D